My friend, The outlook isn't good.......

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My friend, The outlook isn't good.......
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Sat, 10-22-2005 - 11:39pm

Please Please Pray for her.


Tomorrow she will be brought out of her drug induced coma, she will recieve nothing other than her saline/nutrition iv and morphine drip. At that point to live or not is up to her. Her BF has already exceeded her wishes and will push no more, now it's up to Julie and the fates that be.


I sit here fighting my tears, screaming inside, screaming that she stay, screaming she can't leave, screaming that this just isn't fair. Torn to pieces, still trying to pray for the miracle that we need, the miracle that is believed by the dr's & her BF not to come. I can't quit, I can't give up on her, I can't tell her BF that I will do my best to be at the funeral because they all feel like I'm sealing her fate and she is one strong woman, a fighter.


Please pray my friend doesn't leave this world that she makes a brighter, happier & most certainly a more interesting place.


Hugs & Prayers,



Danielle

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Sat, 10-22-2005 - 11:54pm

My T&P's are with you & your friend, Danielle.


A woman from my church who's elderly & has many physical problems became ill & was admitted to the hospital. From there, she steadily declined. She was moved to intensive care & was put on life support. When the dr. told the family there was no hope, the family agreed that their mom wouldn't have wanted to be kept alive. Life support was withdrawn. I am pleased to tell you that she was out to church the last 4 Sundays. Where's there's life, there's hope.


Hoping for a positive outcome here. (((hugs))) jan

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Sun, 10-23-2005 - 12:01am
Thank you Jan, Thank you


Hugs & Prayers,



Danielle

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Sun, 10-23-2005 - 2:19am

Danielle, I will keep on praying. I found Jans post to be inspiring & I wish the best for your friend, Julie. Please cry, don't hold it in. Sometimes it is okay to cry. And when she pulls through, you will crying again, tears of joy.

Lots of hugs,
Sheri Ann

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Sun, 10-23-2005 - 3:05am

Thank you Sheri Ann. I too found Jan's post inspiring as did the rest of our circle who were all crying tonight. I pray that Julie pulls through. Every time I get a free moment to myself, even in the bathroom I tell her she isn't going anywhere, she is going to pull through, I'm not going to have to go to AZ.


In the end (forgive the term) I know what is meant to be will be whether it be what we want which is for Julie to stay with us or for her to go on, that is what will happen. There is no stopping it. We may not understand why now but in time things usually reveal themselves. Things do happen for a reason and that I believe to the core of my soul.


Julie knows we love her and we support whatever happens, We'll love her always, and she us and we all know that.


Hugs & Prayers,



Danielle

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Sun, 10-23-2005 - 9:48am

Oh Danielle, you know we will all be praying and pulling for your friend. At the same time, you're in our thoughts as well. It doesn't look like you got a lot of sleep last night, judging by the timestamp on your post. Please try and get some rest today. It's difficult, I imagine, but you must take care of yourself as well, OK?

Hugs, hugs, hugs, to you,

Kendra

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Sun, 10-23-2005 - 10:15am

Thank you Kendra. It took me a long time to get into my room last night but once I did I was out. My logic is that I needed to sleep. Not only am I no good to myself or my family if I'm not rested but I'm no good to Julie if her journey ends and I'm not rested enough to make the travel there.


Her boyfriend gave me some great advice and I'm going to do the best I can to take it especially since it came from him.


"yeah know the feeling
hard to get your mind around it.
keep the good thoughts
burn the bad, lifes short"


Hugs & Prayers,



Danielle

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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 7:23am

Wanted to let you know that I'll say a prayer for your friend and all of those near and dear to her.

Donnah

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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 10:13am
Thank you Donnah, I appreciate it. It has been a very hard weekend. Between Julie hanging on to life and this hurricane going through FL right over my dad & wonderful other mother, I'm just a mess. I told dh I think I need to get out of this house this morning. I dont' know to where, just out.


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Danielle

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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 11:22pm
Danielle HUGS AND PRAYERS FOR YOU AND YOUR FRIEND!!
Hope you got out today--- take care Judy
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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 11:30pm

Thanks Judy. I did get out. We went to breakfast and then computer shopping. We need a 2nd computer, dh & I are fighting over this one all of the time but I don't want another windows puter, I want an apple. We also want it to be a laptop for if and when he travels so we were out looking again today.


I hope that you are well.


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Danielle

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