Just need to vent a bit!!!

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Just need to vent a bit!!!
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Tue, 11-15-2005 - 8:46pm

My anxiety is just acting up a bit.... not too bad but the bad thoughts are creeping in again which seems to bring on the unreal feelings.


Yesterday Dh got into a car accident..

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Tue, 11-15-2005 - 8:57pm
(((Heather))) You have come such a long way. You have developed new coping skills. With your newly found gains, I am confident you will be able to face these challenges. Just breathe & practice the positive thinking.
 

 


 



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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 1:06am

Heather, I just wanted to tell you I am soooo glad your dh is okay! Has your dh been to the doc about the nose bleeding?? (sorry this post was my first to hear about it).
I also wanted to tell you that your reply to my post earlier brought me some comfort......so for your thoughts, try to keep in mind what you advised me (sometimes I just need little reminder, thanks for that).
By the way, goodluck in court tommorow! Go in there with a positive attitude :) I hope things go your way.So goodluck and keep your head up!

Nina

PS- thank you very much for your support. You have been supporting me since I joined the board, and I hope I can do the same for you.

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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 5:19pm

Thanks Jan and Nina,


Nina,


dh's nosebleeds started in April, I got a call at work saying that dh was being taken to the hospital via ambulance. He had uncontrolable bleeding...


When I got to the hospital his blood pressure was through the roof and he was literally bleeding into a bucket... I thought that he was going to die. I though that he was bleeding from his brain and was preparing myself for him to die that night.


I didn't know that you brain can't bleed out your nose. Anyway, they did all they could to stop it but ended up having to put a nasal packing in. It was the worst scream I EVER heard when they did it.


The packing stayed in for 5 days and he ended up with an infection

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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 6:03pm

Heather, that's all I can say is "MEN!" John would do the same, but not that he would mean anything bad by it, he just doesn't think sometimes. Sorry it didn't go the way you had planned: (

Sheri Ann

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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 9:36pm
Heather I am so sorry what your DH is going through.
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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 10:24pm

(((Big Hugs Heather)))

Hope things are feeling better this evening. Was sad to hear about what is going on, doesn't it often seems like so much happens at once. Gosh the nosebleeds sound unpleasant, I am actually learning about them right now in school. The nasal packing would be uncomfortable to say the least.

Your husband is lucky to have a wonderful gal like you watching over him,

Lisa

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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 10:34pm

Thanks Girls!


We still aren't talking and I don't want to. I believe that he betrayed me and I am the last person that he is supposed to

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Thu, 11-17-2005 - 9:21am
Hi Heather, sorry to hear about your van. Stuff like that just make you feel sick. I watched my 2003 Sporttrac getting hailed on. glad your husband is okay from accident. I remember you writing about the nose bleeds before......why does he not have surgery and put an end to all this worry and anxiety? I know what you mean about the packing, my brother has had nose surgery like about 8 times and once I saw them take packing out and so help me you could have wrapped it around the hospital. LOL could not believe all that was up his nose. I was curious about court too. Are you trying to get legal custody or something like that? I know this is none of my business but you talk of your husbands betrayal...............my daughter is a step mom and $30,000 later they have custody of of her husbands son and the court system did not even care to know anything about my daughter, she was not even allowed in the court room (all the times they went). She is the one who 99% of the time takes care of this childs needs in all ways. He is 10 and they have been married 8 yrs. so this child has never known life without my daughter. My daughter loves him very much and so do the rest of us. the childs real mom has supervised visitation 4 hrs every other weekend. My SIL was never married to her.......and she is trash from the get-go, major druggy etc. lives in a dump and has another child now. So I think I kinda understand what you feel like, from the outside looking in and I see what my daughter goes thru. With her though, she knew when she married this man that alot of baggage came with the package.......Maybe I needed to vent LOL. Just make sure that you pick your battles and that this one was worth all the energy that you are putting into it. Pray. ttyl (((hugs))) Debbie

 

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Thu, 11-17-2005 - 11:53am

Debbie,


I will get back to you and write my book..LOL


I just don't have time to type it all out now....lol

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