crowds

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Registered: 03-26-2003
crowds
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Sat, 12-17-2005 - 9:11pm
I was at the grocery store this evening and it was crowded, lots of people on the isle and some bumping into me. I felt so hotflash and very impatient. I even screamed at my DH because he could not find something quick enough on the shelf where all the people were. I wish not to be like this and then afterwards (like now) feel so foolish. I guess this was a little anxiety for me?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2003
In reply to: jane09
Sat, 12-17-2005 - 9:43pm

Yes, it does sound like you had some anxiety at the store today.

Sheri Ann

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jane09
Sat, 12-17-2005 - 10:04pm
Sheri Ann,
You understood so well! Thank you! Yes, claustrophobic was added to the mix too while at the grocery store and yes the isle was the baking isle lol! Thank you for your tips, etc.
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Registered: 09-16-2005
In reply to: jane09
Sat, 12-17-2005 - 11:32pm

Jane now you're talking about one of my own personal anxieties. Large stores and crowds. I also have alot of trouble with lighting in certain stores. I've been known to leave carts filled with things as I rush to the outside as I'm totally unable to breathe. Talk about embarrasing. Like Sheri Ann I tend to shop when there is likely to be less people. I also have my list and have it mapped out so I only spend minimial time in the store.

Keitha

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Registered: 03-11-2004
In reply to: jane09
Sun, 12-18-2005 - 12:57am

Hi, Jane! Welcome to our community. We are glad that you found us. You are NOT alone. We would welcome you to join in our discussions and visit our chats. Many of our members can share their experiences & ways of coping in the situation you described.


I see that Sheri Ann & Keitha offered you some reassurance in knowing exactly how you feel. I don't care for crowds & try to stay on the outskirts. My biggest trouble is feeling trapped when waiting in long lines.

 

 


 



iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2003
In reply to: jane09
Sun, 12-18-2005 - 11:31am

Jan posted some great insight.

Sheri Ann

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jane09
Sun, 12-18-2005 - 7:37pm
I would like to thank all of you for responding. Yes, that was the first time in awhile that I can remember in that type of situation where I felt like that. I liked what one poster said to the sense of not being hard on yourself for things you can not control, that really hit home with me and I will take that advice. Thank you all again - great group here.