Dh is NOT being supportive...
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Dh is NOT being supportive...
| Wed, 01-11-2006 - 7:29pm |
Dh has always been great, he is a GREAT Father.
He fell to pieces with Ryan and I have been the one to take care of them mostly, when they get the severe nosebleeds or anything like that I am the one to take care of them. I am not faulting him for this at all ...
BUT Sat. night Justin got his awful bloody nose and I have been a MESS ever since, I can't stop crying. I have taken Justin to the Dr. and will take Ryan tomorrow... I am doing the majority of things. As I said, I DO NOT blame

(((Heather))) Men just don't get it.
Sheri Ann
Wow Heather i am so sorry that you are also having such a hard time right now.I think about you often,wondering how your doing.You have been such an inspiration to me.I am struggling with which med to take and in my head i have a little voice saying,take the kololapin, heather did.I hate that your having such a hard time.It must be in the air.I am always for some reason afraid to talk about my problems on here,but me and Dave split up this past sunday.He has just been really insentive.We had a bad argument,he grabbed some things and left.He just dosent seem so strong for all this anymore.I was trying to talk to him about something AND HE FELL ASLEEP.i was upset because of that,and because i thought that was mean he started yelling at me.He makes me feel stupid sometimes.I cant sleep at night and he will say things like your going to die from
Oh Heather, I'm so sorry. Where's the straw that breaks the camel's back?
Jennifer
"Oh, that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evi
{{{{Heather}}}}
I'm sorry you're going through so much. I think a lot of men wouldn't be able to handle this type of thing. Women truly are the stronger sex. When Logan was dx asthma it was a lot of stress on ME! Dh didn't help with the ER visits prior to the dx or the dr's appts and after the dx came it was like pulling teeth to get him to learn and understand about Logan's condition. Even to this day he'll leave the house w/out Logan's rescue inhaler so I've put it in the car to avoid that. Point is that some men just can't handle this much. I'm glad you have us to vent to and even call upon. I think when the saying "It takes a village to raise a child was invented" they ment that it take a village full of women to raise the child.
As far as that other woman, UGH, What a snot is all I can think of to remain within TOS. It's amazing how nasty some people can be today. Think some of those women in the village are rotten apples.
Hang in there Heather. You're doing great. I'm sure you feel like you are falling apart and I never ever discount someone's feelings but you are doing a great job hanging in there. Know that I am always here even if you need to talk.
Many Hugs
Danielle
Hugs & Positive Thoughts Always,
Heather just want you to know my support is here for you if you need it. You are a strong woman, I know right now you may not feel that way but you are and you'll make it through this also. Did I ever tell you one of the main reasons I finally came out of lurking and into posting was because of you. I totally fell in love with the pictures of your boys and you just looked like the type of person I would want to be friends with. Hang in there girl we're here for you whenever you need us.
Keitha