Anxious over my grandparents/TRIGGER

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Registered: 05-16-2005
Anxious over my grandparents/TRIGGER
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Mon, 02-06-2006 - 9:10pm

Hello Everyone,


 

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Registered: 12-05-2005
Mon, 02-06-2006 - 11:39pm

OH Jeanie

I am so sorry, But Don't beat yourself up, we all want to remember our loves ones the

way they were when that had their health, When my Dad died I did the same thing for

awhile, I hid things and then later I brought everything out and it made me feel he was

there close to me, I wish I had of been able tho to have told him how much I loved him

or to let him know how much I appricate all that he had done for me.. I still get sad

thinking about it. he was kill in a train reck all at once so I didn't get a chance to

say anything. I wish I had. I know it is hard. You know maybe you could write them a

letter and tell them the way you felt and you know what, in the long run you will be glad

that you told them all you want to them and they too will tresure that and then you

wouldn't feel bad they will understand the distance thing. It will make you feel better

you and them feel better in the long run... You know My dad was 38 years old when he was

killed. He was in perfect health, so see we have to grab every moment we can to tell the

poeple we care for what they mean in our life. If not like me, the chance is gone. at

least on earth. I hope I helped alittle, Just don't beat yourself up ok, you have not

done anything wrong, truly. (((BIGS HUGS)) LET ME know if I can help with anything ok..

LYNN

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 02-07-2006 - 12:21am

I am very sorry, Jeanie. As we age, we see more & more people pass over & it hits us hard when we

 

 


 



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Registered: 05-26-2003
Tue, 02-07-2006 - 2:14am

Jeannie I am sorry you are experiencing this, I thought maybe I could add something from my perspective as someone who has cancer.

Judy

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 02-07-2006 - 9:15am

Jeannie

Jennifer

"Oh, that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evi

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Tue, 02-07-2006 - 12:17pm

I didn't have tears rolling down my face until I got to Jennifer's post.

Sheri Ann

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Registered: 05-16-2005
Tue, 02-07-2006 - 2:02pm

Wow, you gals are all

 

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Registered: 05-26-2003
Tue, 02-07-2006 - 4:59pm

'Your response ment alot to me,you just dont know how much...'


Jeanie, thank you for your kind words, as for the past, it is forgotten, ok?


Judy

Judy