Starting to stress 2 wks before i need 2
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Starting to stress 2 wks before i need 2
| Fri, 03-24-2006 - 7:40pm |
Now talk about a "crazy" woman here I am stressing already about my Disability hearing two weeks before the event will even happen. Heck by the time it gets here I will surely be a nervous wreck. And of course all my thoughts are on the negative. I know in my heart I believe I deserve it but my mindset tells me they will again turn me down. Why do I do this to myself? If I'm turned down again there's nothing I can really do but accept it and reapply at a later date. So why can't I just accept that and deal with the results when they come in.
Keitha

Not crazy, Keitha. This is another form of stress. It's a situation you don't have control over & had a bad decision in the past. Allow yourself 15 minutes a day to mull it over. Analyze it. Worry about it. Feel scared. Then, get on with your life. Keep your mind & body busy. If the thoughts return, refocus & move ahead. Be extra kind to yourself.
We all have the need to fight things through to the end. It's called survival. If you were to accept a negative decision now, it would be like giving up. We don't want that. We want only the best for you. Sending P&PT's your way. Good luck! (((hugs))) jan
(((Keitha))) Have you been to the worker's comp & ssdi board on iv?
Sheri Ann
Sheri I went to that social security board awhile back and it made me feel even more anxious..........It's like you almost have to be dead to get any help LOL......And I'm far from dead just "crazy" and a bad back, which they don't seem to care about. I was doing ok but the lawyer called yesterday to make arrangements for the actual hearing. I'm just terrified. We have to go to London, which is a drive I hate.......I have to meet with people I've never really meet before, which stresses me........my my I'm just a mess. I just want this to be over with and for once I'ld love to see things go my way.
Keitha