cut off all my hair - DH hates it - cry

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cut off all my hair - DH hates it - cry
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Sat, 03-25-2006 - 9:32pm

I cut my hair pretty often - and he's pretty open about telling if he does or does not like it..... it's sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo short.... the picture was cute that I copied - but it didn't look as cute on me as it did on the person in the pic... i don't really care for it either... but i'll get use to it.. i just want to cry though. I asked him if he wasn't attracted to me and he told me he'd love me even if I were bald - but he doesn't like the hair cut... :(

good thing my hair grows fast.. but this sucks.

I cut my hair ALOT!!! does anyone else have a problem with constantly trying to change their hair?? i'll never be satisfied with it.. ugh.

where did i put those xanax...

Val

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Sun, 03-26-2006 - 2:36am

Val, I think you are so brave! I only cut my hair once or twice a year...it's long, thick and curly so you really can't tell. I've always wanted to have a cute, short haircut...kind of like Meg Ryan's in "City of Angels"...but I've never been brave enough to try. I'm always too worried that it will look funny and I care too much what other people think.

Even if you haircut didn't turn out as planned, I think it's sooo awesome that you had the guts to even do it! Chin up :)

~Meghan

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Sun, 03-26-2006 - 2:37am
Part of my anxiety is waiting. Feeling trapped. I had very good luck when my cousin was working for a major chain @ the mall. She knew of my anxiety. Took me in through the back entrance & got me right into the chair & right back out. Just to get a haircut is a treat, Val. I haven't had a professional cut in a very long time. I make a mess of it with the kitchen shears): Like you, I have had to wait until my bad *do* grew out. Good luck. (((hugs))) jan




 

 


 



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Registered: 03-22-2003
Sun, 03-26-2006 - 8:41am

I'm like Jan, I cut my own hair.

Sheri Ann

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Sun, 03-26-2006 - 8:52am

Thanks guys!

The lady that cut it thought it was adorable.. but it will definetly take some getting use to.

i had some anxiety about the cut simply because it is shorter than i would usually go for... (cut it like Sienna Miller's hair is right now)

I actually love to get my hair cut... I guess it gives me the chance to change something on my time - by my thinking... not just accepting change and addapting to it... I guess it rolls in with the control issue. :) I'll have to look up some different ways to increase hair growth. :)

I'm lucky to have the husband that I have... he said he'd love me even if i was bald... he says the same things about weight.. when i didn't loose my baby weight as fast as I wanted to - he says he'd love me at 100 lb or 250 lbs... my heart mattered more than my hips.... lol

I hate the hair cut more this morning than I did last night... but it will have to be ok - what's done is done. lol I am concerned a bout what the people at work will think.. but not like they haven't seen it every which way and every color over the 7 years i've been there..

Thanks for the words of encouragement.

Valerie