On a more serious note...

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On a more serious note...
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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 11:41am

For a very long time, I have been plagued by medical problems that were weight related. Try as I might, the weight goes down, then up again): Almost a year ago, I entered the process to go ahead with the gastric bypass surgery. I was scanned, evaluated, x-rayed, tested from head to toe. Along the way, I had some setbacks due to stress & illness. Now, I am on top of my game. I am pronounced AOK;) The big day is finally approaching. Next Tuesday, June 6, I am scheduled for this very serious surgery.


I am terrified. I am afraid my anxiety will return. There will be no turning back. My life will change dramatically & that isn't just because I will be eating less. In spite of the fact that this surgery is controversial, I would like your support. I would like a few P&PT's thrown my way. Really, I would appreciate it so much. I have never been very strong, nor known for my bravery. Everything about surgery scares me. Honest!


For now, I cannot allow the word *complications* in my vocabulary. This surgery will possibly save my life or @ the very least, improve the life that I already have.


I plan to take a week off from the board. I may be back even sooner. I may take a *lighter* role for a few weeks. I am asking that you guys support Sheri Ann just as you do now. Paula will continue with a quote each day. Lynn/Shasta will post the WWU. Lisa will keep us *goal oriented* in her new thread. Sheri Ann will think up a question of the week. Right, gf??? Whoever gets to the board first on Friday's, feel free to post a Friday 5. OK?


 

 


 



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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 1:12pm
Jan, you have been a good friend to me for years now. I love you like a sister and I will be praying harder for you than you can even realize. I will put you on prayer list at church. You are one of the strongest women that I have ever known. Love ya, you've got my number, I'm right by your side.(((hugs))) Debbie

 

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 1:22pm

I will be sending P&PTs your way!

Sheri Ann

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 1:30pm

Jan, I wish you good luck on your surgery and will also be praying very hard for you. My oldest dd is looking into this surgery also. She is very heavy and has diabetes, high blood pressure and several other problems related to her weight. She has not had her evaluation and exams yet. Just talking to her family Dr about it so far. She realizes its a long process and a dangerous operation but just has not been able to keep any weight off. She also has panic attacks. I will be interested in watching your progress to see what she will go through. She has joined a new fitness club to try to get herself into an exercise routine before she begins the process of getting the surgery.

I see you live in NW Pa. I do also. I wonder if we live very close to each other? I live in Warren, Pa. Again good luck on your surgery. Your really brave to do this and I know you'll do fine. Sharon

GRACIE

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 3:01pm
A THOUSAND HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU KNOW I WILL PRAY FOR YOU!!
You are much stronger than you think! You give us hope everyday!!
You make us feel so much better! WE LOVE YOU!! Judy
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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 3:16pm

Jan my thoughts and prayers are with you my friend. I know this must have been a hard desesion for you but appartently a much needed one. I'll be thinking of you and wishing you the best outcome possible.

Keitha

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 5:13pm

Jan,


I really admire you for doing all of this.

Jennifer

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 5:17pm

Jan,
I just want you to know I am here for you, and sending you lots & lots of prayers. <3
And as always, you are in my thoughts every day.
You are a wonderful 'sister' to me. I love you!

I so wished I was not 'acrossed this big united states' so I could be there to hold your hand, but I know of an 'angel' that will be there for you ;0)
Please call me, and let me know how you are doing. Also, Will someone still be in touch with me so I know how you are doing, right after surgery, and to keep me updated?? Hope so!
Please feel free to give your gf, Jas, or your folks even my email and/or phone number.
Keep Smilin' I know you are scared but just know how much we love & support you!!
I think you are gonna feel so good! I am jealous! hee hee!
Again, Love you!!!
Your Friend, Always & Forever, shastagold ****BBBBBIIIGGGGG HUUUUGGGGGG!!!! <3

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 5:45pm

(((Jan)))

You have just been bumped WAY up on my p & pt's list and I am keeping you there!! I know you realize all the ups and downs with this and I am here for you for the long haul! If you need more time off don't feel like you need to hurry back!! We will be here cheering you on. Just take it easy, heal quickly, and *try* to keep us posted.

Feel free to email anytime ;-)

Lisa

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 5:49pm

BTW...I am proud of you, it takes a lot of courage and strength to make this kind of decision and you did it!! Kudos!

Lisa

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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 6:16pm

Jan,
You will be missed and hey maybe you needed a rest, You also will be at the top of my pray list ok. You know my feelings, The Wise One. hey hang in there.

THE BIGGEST HUGS

Lynn

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