Kind of Sad

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Registered: 10-21-2004
Kind of Sad
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Wed, 08-16-2006 - 3:33pm

Hi everyone, My weekend away with dh was great, we had alot of fun and did some very interesting things, and my anxiety stayed low at about a 3, so that was great! I dont no if anyone remembers, but awhile back I posted about my uncle who was diagnosed with terminal cancer and given about 4 weeks to live, well on the up side of things he lasted for almost 4 months, and he is still here, but when I came home Monday, my mom told me that he was being transfered from the hospital in Regina to a short term care facility in Yorkton.... He asked his dr to let him go home to die. :( I dont no what to think, I no it is for the better, all he is doing is suffering now, but to deal with another death? I dont no if I can handle it. I have already made the decision to NOT go to the funeral, I dont do well in that situation and it always makes my anxiety way worse, and brings on depression, so we all agreed that it's best for me not to go. Anyways just need a little support and a shoulder to cry on.... thanks for listening

:( Kindra ):

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Registered: 03-11-2004
In reply to: kindra11
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 3:53pm

(((Kindra))) Just as your uncle has made the decision to deal with his passing, you have made yours. These issues are very personal & noone can say what is right or wrong for you. You know what's best. Sending P&PT's your way. jan


PS Good to hear about your time away with dh. WTG!





 

 


 



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Registered: 05-27-2003
In reply to: kindra11
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 4:47pm

thats hard and sad kindra...its unfortunate that anyone has to go throught this:(....


please post and vent as often as you need throught this tough time for your family and you

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Registered: 03-22-2003
In reply to: kindra11
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 3:50pm

Kindra, I'm so happy your weekend getaway went so well!

Sheri Ann

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Registered: 12-25-2004
In reply to: kindra11
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 9:54pm
Kindra, I'm glad to hear your weekend with your husband went so well. I'm sorry that there was bad news waiting for you at home, though. You'll be in my thoughts. ((Hugs))
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Registered: 08-29-2003
In reply to: kindra11
Fri, 08-18-2006 - 12:54am
(((((Kindra))))))) Hugs!
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Registered: 12-22-2005
In reply to: kindra11
Fri, 08-18-2006 - 4:58pm

Hi there...

I dealth w/the terminal illness of my father and this really helped me alot. Death and sickness are so unnatural. Anxiety/ panic made my situation so much worse.And I look forward to the day when they are no more.

http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2005/8/15/article_02.htm