AHHHH Stress and Anxiety
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AHHHH Stress and Anxiety
| Mon, 09-25-2006 - 11:56am |
Hello all...
Well i'm very stressed out and have major anxiety and panic right now....I'm trying to plan my wedding but when I try to book something I get so panic stricken that I can't do it. I've already lost one wedding date because of my fears and lack of commitment....My trouble...thinking about getting on a plane and being on an island that I can't get off of...and the water and the tsunami's....ahhhhhhhhh....Deep Breath!!!! My fiance is like are u gonna book it or what.....i don't have the heart to tel him that i'm scared...I'm so over being scared and panic striken all the time... I"M OVER IT......
HELP>...

hi there...
i can totally relate to
I am sorry that you are going through this. Anxiety is a very stressful disorder.
You said that you are afraid of being on an island, are you planning on getting married on an island? Why do you have to get on a plane?
Sometimes it is better to stay with what we are comfortable with. You wedding is supposed to be one of the most magical days in your life and planning is should be fun. I honestly think that you should stick with what you are comfortable with to make the day less stressful. Maybe a place that you know well and wouldn't feel anxious about.
I also think that you need to speak to your fiance' and tell him the truth aboout your feelings. This is the person that you are going to marry and I would think that he would be a great help for you and help to ease your fears.
Good Luck!
~Heather
I am sorry to hear how you're feeling. This seems more stress than you can handle @ this time.
This is one of those times when you need to confide in your fiancee.
Sheri Ann