Question
Find a Conversation
Question
| Sat, 10-07-2006 - 7:05pm |
My partnrer use to be so good at accepting my illness and at least trying to keep my self esteem up there where I at least felt good about her and I. Lately things have changed and she's making me feel not so good about myself but I'm suppose to act as if everything is fine or she makes me feel even worse. Does anyone elses partners do this to them or I'm I starting to stand on thin Ice. Is this the beginning of the end or is she just tired of me being they way I am. It's not like I'm not trying to get better, but I could sure use her on my side instead of knocking down what little self esteem I have.
Keitha

Pages
(((Keitha)))
It is so hard to deal with anxiety issues when your support person starts to lose patience. I'm afraid it is pretty normal for this to happen, they start to feel the pressure of what is going on and often take on too much when helping you out. I think she must need a little break from it all so try to lean on us when you can. Take some time together without anxiety and do something fun, take a walk, sit in nature.
We are here for you and want to help, hope Mel comes around again and things get better real soon.
Hugs,
Lisa
Keitha,
I am so sorry that you are going through all of this.
It sounds as though the stress is taking its toll on Mel. You should try to get her to talk to you and tell her that you understand that she is adjusting to have dd and your grandbabies there.
Of course it doesn't excuse her not talking to you and treating you not very good.
Just try to get through to her as best you can and lean on us when you need it. Hopefully all this will be over soon!
HUGS!!!!!
~Heather
Heather we have been talking and I know all of this is hard on her. And the fight for our land is getting to both of us. It's costing us money we don't really have and we all know that financial problems bring on problems between partners. Though once this is settled or not we will be making our money back off the land itself. If we win we'll log out some of the bigger trees and if we lose we'll remove the coal from our part of the land which is on our side of the property. Billy's part of the coal was blasted out years ago by the original owner. The coal miners say we'll be very rich women. But I want my land not the money. Money's never meant alot to me, I've never had it so how can one miss what they have never had. I just want to live here on Gods land.
Keitha
I know Keitha, you are a true nature person. You are with your animals and all the beautiful sights that you have.
Try going for a walk or get some tea and sit outside and just take it all in..
Hugs!!
"Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." 1 Peter 5:7
Keitha, I think it's normal to have to get used to each other's routine after being apart.
Sheri Ann
"she thinks taking me away from here will make it all better"
Keitha, I think this goes back to she wants to make you feel better & doesn't know what to do.
Sheri Ann
Keitha, I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers.
Sheri Ann
Pages