My "Aha" Moment
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My "Aha" Moment
| Thu, 10-26-2006 - 9:24am |
I think I may have gotten to the root of some of my anxiety over the impending move with my b/f.
Went to the pdoc last night and crabbed about the usual stuff. Asked for an increase in Effexor which she did.

Hi Dharma,
I think it's great that you are coming to understand this dynamic of your past. I think that if you could cut the communication with your old b/f completely maybe that would help you put those thoughts behind you. It sounds like you have really decided that he isn't the guy for you and keeping the communication out of spite will just bring trouble eventually.
It's great that your current relationship is so strong! I believe in accentuating the positive. LOL
Hugs,
Dee
"He took a job two hours from where we lived and told me he was moving...without me."
Is it possible that this is still a subconscious fear, Dharma? That you're afraid this current move won't go through & you'll be left behind? That is a very frightening situation & one that may still lie just beneath the surface. It would sure shake my feelings of safety.
Good to hear that you're gaining insight. That is always a relief to those of us with anxiety. Keep up the good work! (((hugs))) jan
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Interesting thought...I actually have the opposite fear...that I will get in a permanent situation and want to RUN.
Sheri Ann