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| Thu, 11-02-2006 - 11:49am |
We did not end things.
I was a nervous wreck this morning, so I took some Klonopin before my session. I went in there and said exactly what I had rehearsed, how I had given the matter a lot of thought and that I thought it might be best if we ended our relationship. I told her how it felt like she was coming across to me as being frustrated with me and if so, that I didn't want to waste her time or mine by continuing to come back if she thought we weren't going to get anywhere.
We talked about that--and many other things--and agreed to work on it. So the upshot is that now she has a better idea of where I'm coming from. Meaning that while she knows I have trust issues, I told her that I don't always tell her what I'm thinking, so sometimes she will say something and think I'm being dismissive of her suggestions when really I'm not. I agreed to take on a more active role in the sessions.
So for now at least, I will continue to go in once a week.


laura, i'm really glad to hear that you told your T this...i agree w/jan...communication is critical in your relationship w/your therapist.
hopefully this will help you both move foward.
www.babiesonline.com/babies/t/tylerjames11152004
www.babiesonline.com/babies/1/12262006
Sheri Ann