Am I....

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Registered: 07-28-2004
Am I....
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Thu, 12-21-2006 - 4:10pm

...turning into my Mother?!!? Yikes!

Just came from a therapy session. Started talking about my current stressors and ended up talking about my relationship with my Mom.

So I get home and I'm thinking about her and my Grandma and their relationship vs our relationship and I start seeing patterns in all my control freak type issues.

Nooooo!!!!!!!!!

I refuse to become my Mother.

Whew! Thanks Just had to get that out.

;)

Smiles,
Dee

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Registered: 03-11-2004
In reply to: goodfolk
Thu, 12-21-2006 - 7:02pm

Whenever I begin to criticize my dd's like my mom always did me, I bite my tongue. It's scary when you realize that you inherited both the good & the bad from your own mother. You do have it within your control to make the necessary changes, Dee. It's never too late;)


I hope you feel better. Wishing you the best of luck in putting your *best* foot forward! (((hugs))) jan

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Registered: 11-28-2005
In reply to: goodfolk
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 1:33pm

You previously wrote:


 

Amy

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Registered: 03-22-2003
In reply to: goodfolk
Fri, 12-22-2006 - 6:16pm
Yes!

Sheri Ann