Would you be offended???
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|Thu, 04-10-2003 - 11:28am|
Anyway, after a bit, she comes up to me and starts asking how my browsing is going. I say "fine thanks" and she notices the toy I'm eyeing as I reach to read the package... She says "oh so you're thinking of that one huh? What are you looking for in a toy? Do you want it firm, powerful, soft, jelly, rubber, plastic" and she just would not stop!!! My goodness woman! In a store like this, please only give me help if I ask for it! I told her I didn't know what I wanted b/c I've never seen all the varieties and options etc... so she starts taking these different vibrators and things off the shelf and starts opening them to show me how they feel and sound and move etc... i did not ask her to do this...
so you can only imagine how un-comfortable it was for me when she's saying to me "here, hold this and feel how powerful it vibes" "feel how life like this is" "Do you like the thickness?" Arrrgg...
sooooo.... after she's made me uncomfortable enough already, she says to me as she's putting the toys away "don't take this the wrong way, but you really should go for a bra fitting". I look at her in astonishment and just say "ookaaayyy" and think to myself "so that's why she was staring at my chest so much". I know she meant it in good will, but geez, I was wearing my old old bra, that I KNOW didn't fit all that right, but it's the only clean one I had and it's not like I was wearing anything sexy or doing anything special that I cared that much about how perky my breasts looked!! lol... she starts telling me how b/c I'm wearing the wrong bra, I look 10 lbs heavier in around my stomach and all this other stuff! Like Geez!!!!! I already have alot of self-esteem body-image issues, I really dont need a stranger to be telling me that my crappy bra makes my boobs look "not as full as they could be" and makes my stomach look more fat!! Ugh. Like I said, I already knew I wasn't wearing the right size at the moment, all my other ones were dirty.. and with my chest size, having each bra cost around $50-60 a pop, I can't afford to have more than 3!!!
Would you be offended with that or would you be thankful she pointed it out?