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|Tue, 06-03-2003 - 7:24pm|
On Memorial weekend she wanted to visit and needed a place to stay. I told my boyfriend I wish he would tell her no and that this made me incredibly uncomfortable. He said she is a friend and nothing more and I should understand since I have guy friends that come to visit me. I told him that if any of my guy friends ever made him uncomfortable I wouldn’t let them stay with me. We ended up arguing over this and she came to visit and stayed with him anyway. Ends up all of his friends and family loved her! But she never made any effort to talk to me. My boyfriend kept telling me I was being too insecure. I feel that if this girl’s intentions were to be just friends with my boyfriend she would try to get to know me. But she didn’t. The only thing she said to me was she hopes she didn’t make me uncomfortable since she knows that it’s an awkward situation. I didn’t know how to respond to that. My boyfriend doesn’t understand how I feel but I honestly wish he would just stop talking to her. But I know he won’t. There is a work convention in July and I know he will see her then. But I won’t be there since it is out of town. I don’t know how to deal with this. Whenever I think about their relationship I get very angry, insecure and jealous. I wish she would just get out of our lives. My boyfriend’s argument is I should trust him and since his intentions are innocent I shouldn’t worry about anything else. What do you guys think? Am I overreacting due to my insecurities or is my boyfriend being too insensitive? What should I do when he sees her again in July? Thanks.