Looks like I will be living alone.....
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|Mon, 06-09-2003 - 9:18am|
He still wants to live together w/out marriage. But - if at some point HE (not 'we') feels that it is right, and that we are "perfect for each other"... then we could get married. Well geez - then why are we even living together ?
He even said "Oh, is this going to come up every year???" WOW!!!!
Anyway - I told him that I don't feel right about living together indefinitely, and that I would like to live on my own in that case. I tried to explain how this could even benefit us, because then I wouldn't be bitter and resentful. And in return, he wouldn't feel any pressure about the subject. I reassured him of my love, and how I still want to be a couple. But - nope. He thinks my way of thinking is ridiculous.
He took off for 2 hours after our talk. And now he is being cold & distant. Whatever. I cannot compromise myself for him. Or anyone!
Well, I guess we shall see what happens. Sigh!!!
Thanks for all of your advice about this stuff lately, you all really helped me out a lot.
Love & hugs to all of you! Julie