BF Update (if anyone is interested, LOL)
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|Wed, 06-18-2003 - 9:26am|
Anyway - she talked about her observances of us, and man, she was right on.
It's not even about wanting to marry him anymore. It's about wanting to CONTINUE with him.
She said he seems to care more about losing the apartment & dog, than losing me. And that he is so rigid in his views that he is not a good candidate for counseling, and will probably never mature or change much. She said he has no empathy when it comes to me either... (Again, True).
She noted that he definitely cares about me a lot, and has a great heart. He is so good to EVERYONE - my mom, his family, and me.. when I ask for it.
So - I am going to see her again to talk about it more.. she wants me to work it through with her. Suffice it to say - I am afraid Ladies.
Here I am - 37 years old, settled into a very nice apartment with my dog & my guy.. thinking that this was going to be "IT". But now I have to decide. I know I am strong, and independent, and all that stuff, and that a woman should NEVER settle.
Sigh! Anyway - just wanted to talk about this - it's such a big thing for me right now. So - sorry if I seem distracted lately...this whole thing sucks. Thanks for listening :)
Hugs & love, Julie