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|Sun, 07-20-2003 - 12:00am|
i am a quiet person and no one likes quiet people. i don't think i am very shy. i guess i used to be. i definitely hate public speaking and feel less comfortable in groups, but only because i never have anything to say. when i am introduced to someone i can say 'hi, how are you, and make a little small talk, but i can never carry conversations very far. i don't know how people perceive quiet people, but the reason i don't talk is because i have nothing to say! ideas don't come to me very quickly. at work i turn down invitations to lunch because when i do go, they look at me differently. but it's also like ther is an aura about me. some people take an immediate dislike to me, i can see it in the way they look at me. i'm quiet, but i can't help it. is there anyone out there who can relate?