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|Thu, 07-24-2003 - 11:34pm|
I realize that co-workers can be stupid and even vicious at times. I also realize that an innocent individual should not have to explain themselves. But do these people not realize they are hurting an even more innocent individual....the wife and family of their target????
I trust my husband and I know he loves me as much as I love him, but I sure do wish I could go there and knock the "you know what" out of these people.
My former husband (2 actually) was not monogomous (did I spell that right??). Anyway, these kinds of stories just stir up old feelings in me and I start to make myself confused. It also makes me feel like I must be some old piece of &%#@ and my husband should be looking elsewhere. He has been assuring and patient and understands my history and why I am reacting this way....but I don't think he really understands how I feel and how much this hurts. I finally told him I don't want to talk about the people where he works, which doesn't seem fair to him. I know he needs to vent too.
Any suggestions on coping with this? I sure could use some fresh thoughts. Thanks for listening.