Possible romantic dilema
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|Tue, 08-05-2003 - 1:07pm|
So, today I’m in our coffee room and I meet up with the guy who services the coffee machines. We’ve been bumping into each other this way for maybe a year. He’s always been pleasant and for some time I thought he seemed interested in me. Today he asked me if I’m married and as soon as I answered ‘no’ I realized what was coming next. He asked me if he could give me his cell number or have my phone number.
As I said, he seems very nice, is always polite, and today he even noticed I lost weight. He told me I’m ‘lookin’ good’. The problem is, I’m really not interested. Help!
He wrote his number down on a stick em note for me. (Visions of Sex & the City) I’ve always been polite to him so I’m wondering if I gave him the wrong impression. How do I either tell him I’m not interested or, do I go out and then tell him I’m not interested?
As I said, he seems very nice and all but there’s nothing about him that makes my heart go a thumpin’. Besides, I will probably meet up with him again here at the office. I don’t want us to feel awkward. Let me end with this, his job servicing the machines is not a problem, I don’t care about his finances. It’s just that his looks don’t really do anything for me. Ladies, I need some guidance.