Good relationship - Bad problem
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|Tue, 08-05-2003 - 1:26pm|
Long time, no post, I know. I am here now though and need some help!
I have recently gotten into a relationship with a man that I have fancied for years. It is going great and we seem to be getting along nicely and it is what I have been wanting. I am paranoid and worrisome sometimes but I am sincerly trying to change my tact in this relationship as I want it to work and think this time it can. Here is the prob...
It seems that when I'm in relationships, I let a lot of what is ME go, mainly hobbies, routines and interests. I don't let friends fall by the way, which is good, but I seem to let the things I love to DO go and that bothers me. Worse still, it tears down my esteem which only serves to make me more paranoid with my man. Am I making sense? It is a vicious cycle. At this point, I have even forgotten what I love to do, which is bad.
So, this post is two fold really.
1) Help! Please give me advice on how I can get out of this rut as I know it would be best for me AND for my relationship.
2) What are some of your hobbies? I would like to try a new hobby or at least think about some and am interested to know some of yours!
Thanks for your replies!