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|Wed, 04-15-2009 - 1:31pm|
I believe it's the first time I'm posting on this board. I was just wondering how you all handle being around people who intimidate you?
I tend to get nervous and quiet around people who are smarter than I am, more knowledgeable, more successful...etc. It also really depends on their personalities and whether or not I feel I can relate or "click" with them. I feel as though I can't be myself...maybe b/c a part of me actually believes that I am on a "lower level" than they are, like I'm not as good as they are.
I really hate feeling this way. I observe other people and I notice that they clearly don't have the same problem as I do. It makes me wonder where we get our personalities from, and why we act the way we do.
Any thoughts, comments, suggestions? It would be appreciated. Thanks.