Trust issues

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2006
Trust issues
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Sun, 06-14-2009 - 9:15pm

So I was talking to my Mom earlier after my twin sister called us and told us about her day (Yankees fan going to a Phillies game??). My Mom made a comment on how she didn't want to compare us but that she thought my twin is more outgoing than me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2007
In reply to: benilaw
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 9:37pm

Hello benilaw.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2006
In reply to: benilaw
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 11:07pm

Hello again and thanks for reading my post.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2007
In reply to: benilaw
Mon, 06-15-2009 - 10:22am

I think you may be on to something in the paragraph that begins, "It just dawned on me".

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2006
In reply to: benilaw
Mon, 06-15-2009 - 10:46am
exactly! you hit the nail on the head.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2007
In reply to: benilaw
Mon, 06-15-2009 - 12:44pm

I always think it's a good idea to start where you are at.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
In reply to: benilaw
Sat, 06-20-2009 - 9:04pm

I think you are one of those people who when they do form an attachment it

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2006
In reply to: benilaw
Mon, 06-22-2009 - 4:49pm

Thanks for your candor. You wrote " I think you are one of those people who when they do form an attachment it

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2006
In reply to: benilaw
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 4:50am
Good Morning,
Sometimes, when we're too caring, we get hurrt and it's disappointing.
Sometimes because too high expectations, we are unintentionally let down; but sometimes we have to extend our social connections and thank god for the people who loves us unconditionally and are not too judgemental.
Here are some suggestions:
1. Journalize your feelings.
2. Join some social groups that makes your happy.
3. Confide in someone who you can trust.
4. (hard for me because I'm sensitive) understand that everyone isn't going to understand your point-of-view; but continue extending your heart. Long-term, it would be worth it..