Into and Help me Please

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Registered: 05-23-2008
Into and Help me Please
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Fri, 09-19-2008 - 10:46am

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 11:20am

Welcome, Stephanie!

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Registered: 04-18-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 11:58am
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Welcome to the board Stephanie we are glad you found us.

My name is Brenda and I am the cl here.

 

 

 

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Registered: 12-02-2005
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 2:58pm

Hi Stephanie,


I believe you are the one that recommended that I come to this site and I came across your post...I wonder if us being pregnant somehow brings up all of these feelings we thougt we dealt with and we were over...I too have suddenly started having flash backs or images and dreams of my father. Sometimes when I take a shower I am afraid to close my eyes cause I think when I open them he will be there..It is so sad. I am a grown woman now and I am not afraid of him anymore. Or at least I thought I wasn't. I just want to thank you for introducing me to this board. It is comforting to know there are other people out there who understand. And it amazes me how people we don't know or never met before can be so kind and caring. It just makes you wonder how our own parents couldn't treat us that way..Either way I am so thankful to find this place...Take care and please email or message me anytime..


Kim

Mommy to Jacob Ryan 14, Summer Jade 2 1/2 and new little sissy Cierra Janelle&

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Registered: 04-18-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 3:38pm
Hi Kim, I'm the cl and I'll welcome you in your intro post.
 

 

 

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Registered: 12-02-2005
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 3:42pm
Sorry about that...I removed it.

Kim

Mommy to Jacob Ryan 14, Summer Jade 2 1/2 and new little sissy Cierra Janelle&

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Registered: 04-18-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 3:54pm
No problem, I just didn't want you to have your post deleted or something.
 

 

 

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Registered: 05-23-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 6:02pm

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Registered: 04-18-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 6:28pm
Stephanie, IMHO therapy is extremely important.
 

 

 

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Registered: 06-19-2003
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 6:53pm

Stephanie,


I am the mother of a 3 1/2 year old who also thought that she had forgiven the person who abused me.

blessings!
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 09-20-2008 - 12:16am

Hi.


I'd like to add my own welcome to the mix. I have to agree with the others. You'll probably find great benefit from therapy so it's great that you've taken the steps to find someone. I guess the question is, what resources are you using to find one who specializes in CSA? I suggest trying emdr.org, rainn.org or selfleadership.org

**gentle hugs**