Patience...I hate it!

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Patience...I hate it!
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Thu, 12-04-2008 - 3:01pm

Sometimes I get to the point where I hate it, hate it, HATE IT!! Being patient, that is. I'm in therapy, right? Duh! I have been for a little over 8 years. Yikes! And honestly, my T and I have done some great work and I wouldn't trade it for the world. But during this time I've worked with younger parts who describe -- very vividly -- some horribly violent events. Fine. But I DON'T REMEMBER. I still don't! Okay, I'm trying to be patient. I've learned that protector parts aren't just going to step aside unless I work through own fears. I get that. And I've been working tirelessly with each part, allowing them the space and support they've each needed. To the point where I really

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Registered: 04-18-2008
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 4:34pm
Gail yes, I hate being patient also.
 

 

 

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Thu, 12-04-2008 - 5:10pm

Brenda,


I'm glad you understand.


I went to my cousin's funeral the other day. I was in awe of how everyone described her. They described her as generous, caring, non-judgmental, sweet, gracious, reserved, open. The list went on and on. She must have been very special and I feel a loss at not

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Registered: 07-13-2006
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 11:01pm

Hey Gail,


Girl, you do have your dander up.

LUCKY