WHY???????????????

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Registered: 11-07-2008
WHY???????????????
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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 1:05pm

After all those years of hurting me stealing everything from me scaring me to pieces etc etc... why did he just NOT kill ME???????????????????????

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Registered: 06-02-2008
In reply to: sjn73
Sun, 03-22-2009 - 1:15pm

I know that you know that I don't have any answer that will bring any clarity or comfort to what happened.

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Registered: 04-18-2008
In reply to: sjn73
Sun, 03-22-2009 - 4:23pm
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Registered: 09-23-2004
In reply to: sjn73
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 12:48am

(((((Shannon)))))))


Like everyone else, I can't honestly answer that question. Many people and religions have tried to answer that through the ages and there's lots of different ideas about it. "Why does bad things happen to good people?"


Sadly, no one knows. All I can say, is unfortunately there's true evil in this world that attacks innocent people. :(


Alisa


Alisa

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Registered: 09-15-2003
In reply to: sjn73
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 11:36am

Why Shannon, why we all ask this question, why me, why not someone else. There is a famous celebrity in England, UK (where I live) who died recently and she had 2 kids, I just thought why didn't God take me instead of her, she had kids.

Why why why, we will never stop asking, maybe God will one day explain this too us and end our confusion and frustration.

Thinking of you my dear friend.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: sjn73
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 12:29pm

Hi (((Shannon))),


"Why" is right! Why did he kill her and not you? I'm not saying I have any answers but I think it's a logical question for you to ask. Unfortunately, as the others have said any true answers are only going to be guesses or best estimates. Who truly knows what goes on in the mind of animal predators like your step-father?


Heck, the bigger question is why did he kill ANYONE?!! But still, why her and

**gentle hugs**

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Registered: 11-07-2008
In reply to: sjn73
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 8:51pm

Um, ((((((((((Gail))))))))))), I have read your reply about 30 times over today.

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Registered: 09-15-2003
In reply to: sjn73
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 8:58pm

Also please bear in mind we are trying to undertand a very very sick person here who does not think the way we do, I do not want to take away your freedom or revelation but to some extent as we are good people and our perps are not, we can never truly understand their thinking, it's because they are abnormal.

Also when trying to find answers, remember for all these perps their big thing is power and control, they need to feel in total control.

Holding your hand and giving you a bug hug if ok with you ((((((((shannon)))))))))

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Registered: 11-07-2008
In reply to: sjn73
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 8:58pm

(((((((((((((((((((((((((MY FRIENDS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Thank you from the bottom of my heart for ALL of your support and just being here no matter what.