I don't WANT to be 'healed'!!

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Registered: 10-12-2009
I don't WANT to be 'healed'!!
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Mon, 10-12-2009 - 7:26pm

Hi, this is my first post to any of the boards and I feel that I'm going to enjoy being here.


I may have a shocking statement for the people on this board but I really DON'T want to be 'healed' regarding all the sexual abuse as well as

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 12:03am

How many other people out there are like me?

**gentle hugs**

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Registered: 10-12-2009
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 2:24am

Hi, This is a post to my opening post

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 7:24am

Hi Jackie,


IMO your original post was just an obvious sign of your abuse. It's funny, we think

**gentle hugs**

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Registered: 07-13-2006
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 9:59am

Hi Jackie,


I don't frequent this board often, although I was once a regular.

LUCKY

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Registered: 09-23-2004
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 2:50am

Hey Jackie,


Welcome to the board. It was very interesting to read your post, to feel such burning anger.

Alisa

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 4:31pm

Welcome to the board,


I think it depends upon each person's history whether or not someone wants to be healed just now.

 

 

"Everyone touches someone's life, and when we touch someone their life is changed forever."

&n

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Registered: 09-20-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 2:03am

Hi Alisa1555,

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 8:42am

I just want to add one little footnote when Lucky said, "Be open to hearing what those who seek healing and forgiveness have to say for we are all at different stages of the journey." If I read that back when I was in your state of mind I would spit fire at the thought of forgiveness. First, let me set the record straight, I NEVER came here for forgiveness. Forgiving myself has been the most beautiful outcome from my healing but forgiveness was not the reason I chose to start down this path. I was too far down that black hole to forgive anyone, not me, not my abusers, not one soul. I came to heal the emotional bleeding.


So I don't think someone needs to have forgiveness on their mind even though

**gentle hugs**

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Registered: 07-13-2006
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 10:35am

Gail is right.

LUCKY

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Registered: 04-18-2008
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 3:22pm
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