I think the signs are coming again

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Registered: 12-31-2003
I think the signs are coming again
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Tue, 05-11-2004 - 9:16am

I'm trying to figure out if we are getting warning signs again about my son.  I mentioned before that another stone fell out of my ring and something did happen, but we averted it.  This is what happened.


His friend got caught with a half of joint (pot, or whatever you call it these days).  My son was in another car and didn't have any, so he was ok, but the cops told his friend they wouldn't arrest him if he and my son would work with them to set up another kid and sell him pot.  They would pretend to arrest them all.  Ha!!!  I think the cops were setting up my son and his friend.  They have been after his friend for years, he's a high school drop out who's always getting into trouble.  He's the one who's had a bad influence on my son.  He's very much of a con artist and my son is totally taken by him.  He loves this kid.  He's been going downhill since he's been hanging with this loser kid.  My husband and I freaked out on him and told him to please not do it.  Thank God he didn't do it.  He was so adamant about being there for his friend.  I know my son smokes pot.  He works alot and is quite active, so he's not a total pothead, but he does do it.  Realistically I know it's very prevalent, it's just hard to take when it's your kid.  He's planning on moving out and living with this kid and his girlfriend (who also got kicked out of her house).  I don't want him to move out.


Anyway, DH & I were watching TV last night and the channel kept changing by itself.  The remote was on the table.  It happened several times.  My light bulbs also starting blowing, which has always been a sign for me.  So, now I'm a nervous wreck that something is going to happen to my son.   Pehaps I should do a reading for him????  I may be too emotionally involved to get a good reading though.  My skin is all breaking out on my arms and legs from stress.  Help!!!


 


 

 

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Registered: 04-11-2003
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 7:51pm
Sending positive thoughts your way...

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Registered: 12-31-2003
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 8:38pm
Thank you!

 

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Registered: 09-20-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 8:43am
Cara, it was a setup. Unfortunately, your son would have been burned in the process, so I'm glad you were able to dissuade him from participating. Of course, it would have been nice to get the troublemaker out of his life for awhile. I have a feeling that there are some tough times ahead for him...I assume we are talking about Michael. Isn't he still in college?? However, everything will happen for a reason and will eventually lead your son to where he needs to be. It won't be easy, but in the end it will be good.
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Registered: 12-31-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 10:25am

Oh my God Specialangel!

 

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 1:17pm

Ok Cara the prayers are on!

"It is from the quietness of the heart that the light of the Star radiates across the world." --White Eagle

 

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Registered: 12-31-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:29pm

Autumn, thank you for your prayers!

 

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Registered: 09-20-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 4:50pm
Cara, don't worry about Michael and dropping out of college. He is going to find his path and be successful, but it will take time. He is a soul who need to experience before he can become. Michael is going to carve out a hard time for himself, but in the end he will gain much and it will enable him to accomplish much.

I'm a bit concerned about Michael when it comes to cars and especially when it comes to his 'not so choice' friend and cars. I'll keep him in my prayers and send positive energies to protect him. Also reinforce that his 'friend' could slip something in Michael's drink. He's not going to appear to listen to you, but it will be in the back of his mind.

Michael will have a good future. We just need to spiritually protect him and try not to go 'grey' in the meantime. Don't let any current situations fool you into believing that he will not succeed or disappoint you. Michael will be successful and give you reason to be proud.

Cara, I felt an energy drawing me to the board. I should have realized it was you. I've keep you in my heart, thoughts and prayers in my absence. I'm confident that you have done the same. Thanks for bringing me home here.

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Registered: 12-31-2003
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 4:12pm

I want to thank you all for your prayers and positive thoughts.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2003
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 5:53pm
Cara, I'm so glad you are feeling less stressed. Seriously, Michael is a bit of a 'wild child', but he sounds more ambitious and responsible than most boys his age. He just needs time to spread his wings and experience life.

Regarding college, do you know how many people I know with their Masters who do not and cannot find work. We all would love our children to go to college, but that is not necessary always the best route. It's more important that he pursue something that he thinks he would enjoy doing; and is something that could provide financial security. Not to mention, so many kids his age still have no inkling what they would like to be when they grow up. Your Michael is actually ahead of the game.

Keeping a steady flow of prayers and positive energies headed your way.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 4:03pm

Cara, how are things going?

~Nicole

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