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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 10:01am

If you have to choose one of the following in your life partner, which would it be?


1.  A strong physical chemistry, but he would have that affect on every woman and you would constantly be battling them off and he would have to resist the temptations of hot women coming on to him all the time.


2.  A secure relationship with someone who made a good living, very family oriented, you wouldn't have to work, but concentrate on raising a family and taking care of the home.  The physical chemistry was not really there, it is a chore to be intimate, but he fills many other needs of nurturing and love.

 

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Registered: 12-31-2003
Sun, 12-12-2004 - 10:22am

I'm going to have to say #2 (but I would work on the chemistry thing).

 

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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 11:08am

Cara, you minx!

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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 1:13pm

Honestly Cara, lately I have been wondering where this board is going.

I don't see how questions/posts like this are in ANY way, promoting Faith OR Spirituality.

Another of your previous questions in another of your posts,... "If you could "lose"(not by death) any one of your siblings, which one would it be and why"?...

I felt it was quite in-appropriate to say the least.

What is your purpose in asking these kinds of questions? Does a CL of a board have to resort to posting ANY kinds of questions, just to keep the board alive?

Because I don't find these posts entertaining or in any way postive to say the least...

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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 1:47pm
I like to keep things light and fun and not so intense all the time.

 

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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 1:57pm

Barbara, that's a good point, I think it depends on what you've been through and what your needs and wants are in life.

 

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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 3:07pm

Sorry, but I'd have to say neither. :D I held out until I was 29 to find the right combo for me that included the physical *and* ability to be best friend and partner, with similar worldview and values.

Gypsy



Blessings,

Gypsy

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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 7:17pm
It's wonderful when you get the perfect mix.

 

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Registered: 05-04-2004
Mon, 12-13-2004 - 1:31pm

Ugh! LOL, Cara, I don't like either choice! LOL...I guess that's the point...


Well, I guess I really don't deal well with other women succumbing to the same effect that my man has on me, so choice # 1 is just out. I would HATE it, lol.


I guess it wouldn't be too nice to go for what's behind door number 2...and then *sheepish grin*...be one of those hot women coming on to the man behind door number 1, lol. *sigh*


Well, judging by all the self-help books I read, I'm sure I'd have an easier time dealing with intimacy with man #2, and then have all that free time to indulge in my own pursuits and creative efforts--maybe even having an opportunity to delve into event planning--and if I didn't make a profit from it, well, thanks to man #2 it doesn't matter. ;-)


What a fun and interesting question! Thanks Cara! :-)
Love,


Victoria

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Mon, 12-13-2004 - 1:55pm

LOL Victoria ~ welllll, you can tell us just what you do like even if it's not one of the choices.

 

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Registered: 05-12-2003
Mon, 12-13-2004 - 1:57pm

Cara, this is a fun and sly question!

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