love spells

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Registered: 04-01-2003
love spells
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Fri, 03-04-2005 - 11:16am
I would like to have your opinions on love spells. I have someone that I would like have return into my life. I have thought of doing a love spell or having one done as a last resort. Can you let me know if you have used one, does it work, how long does it take to see results,what is your thoughts on reinforcement spells.
Thanks
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sinsuwas
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 3:40pm

I'm not a spells and rituals person as a rule, but as I see it, love spells in particular are a big no-no. Never ever ever tamper with somebody's free will. The karmic debt just isn't worth it. It's perfectly OK, on the other hand, to ask for love in general to be brought into your life, as well as to ask for the wisdom/clarity to be a better person. The kind that people want to be around.

I have actually been in the position you mention, wanting a particular person back in my life that I'd lost all contact with. After exhausting all mundane means of contacting him, I did in the end resort to magick. I focused only on making my presence known, reminding him that I'm here, and letting him know that I wanted contact. I chose a physical focal point to remind me to focus that attention/energy and visualized hearing from my friend. He maintains some pretty heavy-duty magickal defenses, so it took about 3 weeks to get through, but it did work.

Good luck!

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Registered: 05-12-2003
In reply to: sinsuwas
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 5:21pm

I don't know much about this sort of thing but I've heard that too, it's not good to mess with free will especially if it forces someone to be with you.

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Registered: 03-09-2001
In reply to: sinsuwas
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 1:13pm
ITA! With both you and Ginger.cookie. I am Wiccan. I take the "Harm None" tenet of my beliefs to mean not to interfere with someone's destiny or will. It disturbs me to see all the love spell book and info out there. :-\ Spellcasting to bring love IN GENERAL into one's life is fine. Messing with someone else's will is just plain wrong, IMO. If the person doen't come to you on his/her own, forcing would bring bad results, harming both the witch and the targeted person. Gypsy


Blessings,

Gypsy

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Registered: 03-05-2005
In reply to: sinsuwas
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 2:34pm
I agree with gingercookie - you don't mess around with spells affecting others - that is black magic and there will be a backlash. You have control over what you choose to create for yourself however so you can create a non-specific vision of something like - "I am in a great relationship with the perfect partner for me" - just stay unattached to the outcome. For example that perfect partner may not be who you thought it would be.
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Registered: 05-12-2003
In reply to: sinsuwas
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 2:55pm

I agree with you, galtaz.