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| Fri, 05-27-2005 - 3:36pm |
Follow up to finding out about the past was a mistake. In the last posting, I was telling you all about finding the man who my mother said was my father and the problems that it was causing he and his family and myself. Well, unfortunately, test was done and turns out that he is not the father. This has left this man devastated but he does wish me well. He has not called since finding out about it.
The strange thing (or not strange thing) is that I am not angry with my mother. Although what she has done to me and what I have done to this man and his family has been near disasterous, but I cannot give her anymore energy than necessary in terms of anger. I still do not understand her motives nor will I try to given our past history and relationship. The problem is that I don't know what the next step is (I don't know her phone number to call her nor do I know of the other suitors that she may have had out there.)
Thank you all who provided me with your kind words and heart felt thoughts during this most difficult situation.

One sperm cell does not a father, make!
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