Creating with our thoughts 2

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Registered: 02-27-2004
Creating with our thoughts 2
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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 3:15pm

Just curious to see what people think as most (me included) seem to believe that we can and do create our reality with our thoughts. Do you think that when you want to create something in your life you should concentrate on one thing or the bigger picture. As an example dh and I often visit a favourite place on the coast in Wales and lately I have begun to think it would nice to live in or within the vicinity of this particular place. I've thought about trying to create this want with my thoughts but I wonder what others think as to whether I should just concentrate my thoughts on the area I want to live in, the type of house I'd like to live in, the house and the area or should I be concentrating on the bigger picture such as how it is going to happen i.e. finding employment there for all of us etc. Whilst I believe we create with out thoughts I've never actually conciously tried to create before and so I'm unsure exactly what I should be doing. Also should I start with little things and work my way up the bigger things?

~Confused Carol~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 9:52am
Oh Charlie, you ake me laugh. I am sick of talking to this
man everyday. I do it in the car and people think
I am talking to myself!!!!!!!!
I am back to what God wants for me, I have to believe
God has the smarts to read my heart. (: ) angels or something.
Some man is writing to me who is 14 years younger with a lot of commonality.
he said his mom was 13 years older than his dad. I am having fun writing to him.
it would be funny if he were it, that rarely happens. Anyways, may God's
will be done, in the way i'd like it to be. hehe. Love, Leila
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Registered: 11-11-2004
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 4:28pm

Go for it. My girlfriend does, and she has the time of her life. Just check to make sure he's, oh, what's the word???...normal. He's in your life for a reason, make the best of it. Have you met him in person yet?

Charlie

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 8:23pm
No, we just e mail, he called me today. For now I like
writing and seeing what he is about. 14 years younger????
Everything is for a reason, even to just keep me busy!!!!!!
he appreciated me planning my A.M. so I'd be home when he said he'd call me.
He sounds like a really nice man with dommonality, now would I be attracted to him?
Whatever??????? I am getting sick of this in general. he is interesting
and reads a lot of spiritual things that
we do. Love, leila
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Registered: 04-22-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 8:31pm

I had a relationship for seven years with a man 12 years younger than me.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 9:38pm
My last boyfriend was 11 years younger, I was
really in love with him. I had the 2 happiest years of my
life with him. we lived together for a year and that was great.
he can't do commitment. He sure fooled me. his girlfriend is perfect,
she never was married or had kids, so her liking to be alone and
his commitment fears keep them together. she loves him but
is not in love with him so he keeps chasing her and it seems to work for them.
Not what I want.
Guess he tried. he is very fond of me, I had to break off
e-mailing him. after the initial break up we bumped into each other
a year later,
there was a lot of talk and forgiveness to do, we got thru that.
he kept flirting, we still had feelings for each other, I met his
girl friend and had to cut it off. not respectful to her and not
loving to myself. He obviously was not faithful to her because of me.
I am happier now. if I have an atrtaction to this
new man, I won't care about the age. I do like him as a person.
He said he looks like Robin Williams with less hair???????duhhhh.
I guess there is a kind of cute side to Robin Williams. Maybe he got
mixed up and meant Michael Douglas???????????????
The worst scenario is friends. I do like younger men, as I get older
I seem to think men closer to my age would stick around longer,
but there are no rules. as my body gets older, I don't want a
man to look at me as old. Love, Leila
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Registered: 11-11-2004
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 10:02am
Ooooooh, 14 years younger, tell him to email me.
I would want to know if there was a physical attraction before I spent anymore time!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 2:15pm
It is good to get to know someone also. It really
isn't too much time. Just e-mailing. Nothing to lose. Love, L
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Registered: 11-11-2004
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 7:33pm

That was bupkus, what I said earlier, husband was coming.
Anyhow my friend met this guy on the net, talked with him for over a year before they met, he turned out to be soooo not her taste, physically. That was the end of that!
I think if you learn something in the process, what's the harm?

Betsy

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