Help me Understand Please
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Help me Understand Please
| Wed, 02-01-2006 - 12:42pm |
I am writing here so that maybe someone can help me to understand this. I met this guy through a friend about a year ago. I was going out with someone else at the time (his friend), but after me and my ex broke up, a couple months later (1.5 months ago) I started talking to this guy again and we started hanging out. We have always got along really well, and have a lot in common. I always enjoy hanging out with him and would have loved just having a friendship with him, but it became more than that and that is where this question comes in. He always told me he was very religious and that he was waiting to have sex until he gets married. But he has been married, divorced, and has a child with a woman not his ex-wife. But I guess he was being born again if that is what it is called. I was ok with that, I really liked him alot and he is almost too good to be true. But then everything gets messed up because he does want to have sex with me. He hadn't in a year and a half (since the baby's mother), he has had a gf before me and did not sleep with her, but wanted to sleep with me. I was shocked to say the least, but happy that we could expierience that. Now, he told me last night that it has been really bothering him and that he can't have sex with me anymore and just my touch temps him too much. Is he kidding? He already has, why stop? Is he just using religion as a reason to break up with me? Is it really a sin to be with one person and make love to just that one person? Is God really going to send him to hell for that? I really need to know, because I am not well informed about religion as much as he is, but I don't see it as something we will go to hell for, God is more forgiving than that, isn't he? Please help me to understand.

Bingo, Leila.
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