Question about people in my life

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Question about people in my life
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Thu, 02-02-2006 - 2:55am

I just had a question come to mind. My dh is so much my soul mate. He spoiled the fairy tale, but that's another story and doesn't change who he is to me. We are working on that together.

My question is about my xh. I met him on a blind date on Friday the 13th, yeah I know!, when I was 16yo. We married six months later when I was 17yo. He abused me for 20 years. I had and have no tender feelings for the man. Even when he cheated on me repeatedly, my reaction was more of being angry that he was bringing something home to my bed, which he did. When I met him, I looked at him and immediately had the strongest feeling that I have had in my life, before and after, that I knew him from somewhere. The next feeling a split second later was that I had hated him. Hmmmmmmm Should have listened to that one! At the time, being young and needing to get out of an abusive home, I thought it meant that he was the one I was meant for. Looking back, I know that was the stupidity of a teenager speaking. However, I have never been able to explain that feeling. I talked to him about it over the years we were together and there was nowhere that we had met before. We lived 30 miles apart, went to different school districts, and he rarely came even close to where I lived. I have often wondered why I would have that feeling about someone I hated.


 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2003
Thu, 02-02-2006 - 11:01am
very simple! a previous lifetime!
and nothing in any lifetime is a co-incidence, I noticed down mine and other people's path..
Be ok? with what you have today? perhaps?
oi! you started a subject that has gotten my oodles gooooooing!!
I love subjects like these!
keep tight? greets and hugs from:
the old brush

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2003
Thu, 02-02-2006 - 3:30pm

I totally agree with brush!


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 02-02-2006 - 5:07pm
Gotta agree with Brush and Bink, sounds like a past life thing to me too.