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| Thu, 10-26-2006 - 9:49pm |
My gut told me for years that something was wrong in my relationship/my marriage. Well, I'm in the process of divorcing right now. One big reason for the divorce was my suspicion of his lying about something pretty major. I confronted him about it about a year ago; he denied it but things never did add up. Over the past year or so I've gotten some pretty strong confirmations of his guilt. Today I got the biggest and final confirmation that indicates at least 10 years of pretty hefty lying to others besides myself (concerning what I suspected and things beyond).
I find myself feeling sick, disoriented, and very fearful as a result. I've never really considered him to be a threat to my or our daughter's safety, but if he's capable of such bizarre and dishonest behavior, who knows what else he could do? Needless to say, I will absolutely not be confronting him with this last bit of information.
I don't know. I guess I'm writing to ask you all to pray for me and my daughter; and him too. I'm trying hard not to fully submit to the spirit of fear, but it's challenging.
Thanks,
Jaye

Jaye,
So sorry that things are tough, but since you