Icky

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Icky
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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 9:49pm

My gut told me for years that something was wrong in my relationship/my marriage. Well, I'm in the process of divorcing right now. One big reason for the divorce was my suspicion of his lying about something pretty major. I confronted him about it about a year ago; he denied it but things never did add up. Over the past year or so I've gotten some pretty strong confirmations of his guilt. Today I got the biggest and final confirmation that indicates at least 10 years of pretty hefty lying to others besides myself (concerning what I suspected and things beyond).

I find myself feeling sick, disoriented, and very fearful as a result. I've never really considered him to be a threat to my or our daughter's safety, but if he's capable of such bizarre and dishonest behavior, who knows what else he could do? Needless to say, I will absolutely not be confronting him with this last bit of information.

I don't know. I guess I'm writing to ask you all to pray for me and my daughter; and him too. I'm trying hard not to fully submit to the spirit of fear, but it's challenging.

Thanks,

Jaye

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Registered: 08-09-2005
In reply to: jaye218
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 7:59am
I will be praying for you and your daughter. I was in her shoes once. I hope that you guys make it through this strong and willing to live again--knowing you deserve to live again. -- April
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In reply to: jaye218
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 10:19am

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In reply to: jaye218
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 11:40am

Jaye,


So sorry that things are tough, but since you