The Secret & Law of Attraction readers??

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The Secret & Law of Attraction readers??
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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 12:11pm
Hi there,
I am on some sort of mission to read everything I can about this subject, the Law of Attraction. For those of you who are also trying to implement this as a way of life, I have one question for you:
Suppose that one is in a relationship that is decent but not fulfilling. That would be me. How does one create thought to end the relationship? I ask for it to end, believe it to end, and receive it to end. I can visualize my life without this person easily and feel it to happen.
But it seems a strange thing to think to happen. Isn't ending a relationship in a way negative? Selfishly, I want happiness, joy, freedom in my life and if this relationship ends, I can have those things. But is it fair to the other person who feels the relationship is all they know and want? What about that person? I certainly do not wish to create hurt for them. My compassionate side interferes for what I truly desire.
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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 2:15pm

Law of Attraction and the Secret aside, is it fair to either one of you to maintain a relationship that has no future?


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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 2:22pm
Those are good thoughts, thank you. Where the problem lies is in him feeling and saying that I am his life and it is all he knows. I do not feel the same. I should be honest, but it is hard to hurt. I will muster up those personal powers and see what happens.
Thanks.
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Registered: 04-22-2003
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 7:09pm

Remember that you are not responsible for his journey or his choices, only your own.


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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 8:16pm

My disclaimer:

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Wed, 04-18-2007 - 1:10pm

I agree with what you said, Jodi. Also, I don't really see the value in using The Secret to bring about the end of a relationship- the only thing that needs to be done is actually very concrete and mundance- just tell the person that it is over. No esoteric or special assistance needed. :-)

Best wishes to the OP,
~Victoria

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Wed, 04-18-2007 - 8:29pm

Hi Jodi,

I don't remember the Secret saying to ask, it says to visualize, feel it in your heart , believe it will happen and keep it in your thoughts. make a connection to thought, feeling and belief. love, Leila

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Wed, 04-18-2007 - 8:32pm
Hmmmm, i don't see where the law of attraction relates to this situation. Seems you want out and he may be manipulating you thru guilt saying " you are so wonderful and all he knows" not really his words but you get the point. Before you can attract what you may really need, you need to be thru with this relationship and be healed from it. You can get out by telling him in a loving way that it is not fair for him to stay with you when your heart is not there and how much you have loved the time you have had with him. Good luck, may it become clear to you. Love, Leila
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Wed, 04-18-2007 - 9:49pm

As I said, I've not read it personally and based my answer on what I've read on this board and Pagan Paths.