The Secret & Law of Attraction readers??
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The Secret & Law of Attraction readers??
| Mon, 04-16-2007 - 12:11pm |
Hi there,
I am on some sort of mission to read everything I can about this subject, the Law of Attraction. For those of you who are also trying to implement this as a way of life, I have one question for you:
Suppose that one is in a relationship that is decent but not fulfilling. That would be me. How does one create thought to end the relationship? I ask for it to end, believe it to end, and receive it to end. I can visualize my life without this person easily and feel it to happen.
But it seems a strange thing to think to happen. Isn't ending a relationship in a way negative? Selfishly, I want happiness, joy, freedom in my life and if this relationship ends, I can have those things. But is it fair to the other person who feels the relationship is all they know and want? What about that person? I certainly do not wish to create hurt for them. My compassionate side interferes for what I truly desire.
I am on some sort of mission to read everything I can about this subject, the Law of Attraction. For those of you who are also trying to implement this as a way of life, I have one question for you:
Suppose that one is in a relationship that is decent but not fulfilling. That would be me. How does one create thought to end the relationship? I ask for it to end, believe it to end, and receive it to end. I can visualize my life without this person easily and feel it to happen.
But it seems a strange thing to think to happen. Isn't ending a relationship in a way negative? Selfishly, I want happiness, joy, freedom in my life and if this relationship ends, I can have those things. But is it fair to the other person who feels the relationship is all they know and want? What about that person? I certainly do not wish to create hurt for them. My compassionate side interferes for what I truly desire.

Law of Attraction and the Secret aside, is it fair to either one of you to maintain a relationship that has no future?
Thanks.
Remember that you are not responsible for his journey or his choices, only your own.
My disclaimer:
I agree with what you said, Jodi. Also, I don't really see the value in using The Secret to bring about the end of a relationship- the only thing that needs to be done is actually very concrete and mundance- just tell the person that it is over. No esoteric or special assistance needed. :-)
Best wishes to the OP,
~Victoria
Hi Jodi,
I don't remember the Secret saying to ask, it says to visualize, feel it in your heart , believe it will happen and keep it in your thoughts. make a connection to thought, feeling and belief. love, Leila
As I said, I've not read it personally and based my answer on what I've read on this board and Pagan Paths.