Lost Will To Live
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| Fri, 06-03-2005 - 9:53pm |
I've got to do something about the ex husband situation. Nothing is happy in my life anymore. I was miserable in the marriage because of him, but being divorced from him is worse. He was controlling in the marriage, and he is even more controlling now. He still upsets me on a regular basis. One of the things he does is he continually asks for more time with the kids. You might say that would be a good thing, that he takes an interest in the kids. Well, it's to the point where the kids aren't used to spending a weekend with me anymore.
Like today. He called at 8am. He asked if he could come get the kids early. I told him no, I wanted to spend the day with him. He threw a fit, threatens me he's gonna fight for custody, on and on. He calls back an hour later. Same thing. Then he called a third time. I still told him no. By this time my day is ruined. So what does he do? He shows up in my driveway hours early like I told him not too. Of course the kids are all excited and jump in the truck with him and off they go. But it's been for a long time now he keeps on like this, and the kids aren't even used to spending even one single weekend with me.
I'm always getting walked all over now matter what I do. I divorced him to get away from his control. I think he has more control now. He upsets me anyway he can.
I gotta find a way to get away from him somehow. There is just no getting away. I'm just so tired of crying every day because of him.

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Then he needs to tell her that she cannot come live with him.
She is not going to believe you.
It was an awful time for me....but I had a baby and another on the way..
A new husband and we were just getting started,
I still cry for them though...that never goes away.
I wish you luck and strength to get thru this...
In my thoughts....
CJ~
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