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| Thu, 06-09-2005 - 5:28pm |
things are still going really good for me, my neice called me and told me things were getting worse at her house but there isnt anything I can do b/c I have tried but my mom and dad lies for my nephew to protect him but not her, they know that he is having sex with her b/c they moved her room down stairs and put a lock on her door, but if you ask mom about it she says that everything is great, so I dont know what else to do, my neice(Brittany) once said something to the school about what was going on but my mom lied and poor Brittany got into big huge trouble with my mom who has custody of them both, actually my mom and dad adopted them so now they are legally my sister and brother, here is the run down of what happened with my sisters kids. my sister got divorced from her abusive DH and got custody of the kids well she became abusive to her kids so she gave them back to her father well then he got remarried and the kid's step sisters and brothers were having sex with my neice and nephew so my mom told ex BIL to sign over his parental rights and my sister did the same, so I know my nephew has had a hard life but he is almost 16 and he knows it is wrong to hit anyone let alone have sex with his sister. I dont know what to do, I try to pull away from my family b/c that is wat is the best thing for me but then I get pulled back in by someone who needs me.

Hey Mary, Glad to hear you are doing well---in SPITE of the incredibly sad and horrific situation your mom is putting those two children in! I feel so badly for Brittany.... I know it must be very hard for you and make you feel helpless (I feel that myself just reading--lol!) but I'm also hoping that Brittany can find someone to help her out of this mess!! Have you or any other caring person ever spoken to child protective on her behalf? Does her school have any idea of what these kids are dealing with?
yea I feel real helpless and I have turned it in so many times but my mom and dad just lie and they have made her so scared that she is afraid to say anything at all b/c she will get into big trouble. I just called my sister Brittany's mom and told her that Brittany has to do this on her own but her mom can be there, when ever I call up to takl to Brittany they get on the other line so I cant talk to her. I hope Brittany and her mom can do something b/c it is all here say when I call it in but if Brittany does it then hopefully something will be done. Just pray for her please.
I am going to have one busy weekend me and my boys and a friend are going to work in the garden we share.
hugs to you all
Mary
thank you so much for your P and PT's . I turned it in when I lived there and nothing was done then I thikn a lot of it has to do with we have relatives that work in the police force and in the schools also, I know when they questioned brittany my parents were there with her so she was afraid to say anything, like I said my parents lie about stuff going on in the house that was how it was when me and my siblings were growing up, the only way she is going to get the help that she needs is to run away or act out so she can go into T also, my mom doesnt think that she needs T, my parents are so afraid of what Brittny is going to say to someone that when I call over there and talk to Brittany they are on the other line so she cant really talk to anyone. I know exactly how she feels and how she is being treated but yet there isnt a thing I can do about it.
hugs to yall
Mary