It's nice to see you again. I am sorry to hear about this issue which seems to be really bothering you. TBH, I am not good @ all with relationship problems. Hopefully someone else will be able to give you some great advice. In the meantime, I will say that the group of 5 seems to have moved on. If *M* sent an e-mail twice a year, which you replied to, but then she didn't respond, why do you think she will now? From the tone of her last e-mail, didn't you think she was perturbed with you? What will you gain by responding to her?
You are NOT pathetic. I am certain you would make a good & loyal friend. There are alot of message boards on iVillage that you could post to & become part of a community. In time you would make new & lasting relationships. I think you know that, so just consider this a nudge. I care what happens to you. Today you might not have all the confidence you need to begin a new relationship. So, please visit us anytime & vent all you need. We'll try to keep you pumped up, so you can move forward. Good luck & GBU! (((hugs))) jan
It's nice to see you again. I am sorry to hear about this issue which seems to be really bothering you. TBH, I am not good @ all with relationship problems. Hopefully someone else will be able to give you some great advice. In the meantime, I will say that the group of 5 seems to have moved on. If *M* sent an e-mail twice a year, which you replied to, but then she didn't respond, why do you think she will now? From the tone of her last e-mail, didn't you think she was perturbed with you? What will you gain by responding to her?
You are NOT pathetic. I am certain you would make a good & loyal friend. There are alot of message boards on iVillage that you could post to & become part of a community. In time you would make new & lasting relationships. I think you know that, so just consider this a nudge. I care what happens to you. Today you might not have all the confidence you need to begin a new relationship. So, please visit us anytime & vent all you need. We'll try to keep you pumped up, so you can move forward. Good luck & GBU! (((hugs))) jan
Edited 7/24/2005 1:01 am ET ET by mariastuff