Falling back into my depression

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Registered: 06-26-2004
Falling back into my depression
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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 2:08pm

As some of you know, I've been having serious difficulties with my ex husband and his new wife. It's just an ongoing situation. First of all, alot of the conflict comes from the current visitation schedule. I talked to an attorney yesterday. As chaotic as the schedule is for the kids, the attorney says if I try to get it changed, that can open the door for him to get more time.

He's already got them 3 weekends a month, and it's just really hard for me to accept he got as much time as he did. Plus right now, we never know whose weekends are whose, etc. He's at work a big portion of these weekends, so every weekend the kids are over there, they are with just his wife a big portion of this time.

I'm finding this to be WAY too much time for him, especially since he's not home a big portion out of this. I'm having an extremely hard time dealing with this, plus I cannot take a full time nursing position because of this, I'd have to work every other weekend, and the weekends would overlap. I'm sooo screwed about this, I just want to crawl off and die somewhere. To some, this might not seem like a big deal, but it's affecting my job and everything, I'm just so screwed.

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Registered: 02-12-2004
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 8:44pm

Hi Jody,


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