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What NOT to say...
| Sat, 09-16-2006 - 2:16pm |
I'm just curious and I don't know if this is appropriate or not but this forum is named "Suicial Thoughts and Feelings" and I would like to know YOUR thoughts... What is ONE thing you would NOT want to hear from the person you were sharing your feelings with?
If I was having serious suicidal thoughts and I was talking to someone about them the ONE thing I would not want that person to throw in my face would be... "that would be a selfish act"
What is yours? Maybe this can help us in a way to discuss it?? who knows?? If this is not appropriate I apologise in advance and it maybe deleted.

Hi sadeyes,,,I hope Lori thinks your question is okay to ask, I guess as long as we put 'trigs' if our answer requires it. For me, when I am seriously in that blackness of despair, it would be if someone shrugs off how I am feeling and not knowing how dreadful depression can be, they just expect you to shake it off and get on with life and stop feeling so sorry for yourself. I truly hate the thought that someone would think I was feeling self-pity because it is actually the opposite of that,,,I feel self-hate.
Hope you are doing alright sadeyes,,,,Abby
Hi there,