Mary- and anyone who read her post
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| Sun, 10-29-2006 - 9:18am |
I feel I need to defend myself against Marys post.. Mo I read your post and you said u were angry and hurt that I called the cops??? WTH? what do u expect me to do when my best friend calls me for the second time in 2 months while i am at work, and tells me she took pills and she is ending it all, and ran off so noone will find her.... HELLO!! That makes ME angry and hurt, what did you expect me to do??? If something would have happened and i didnt call the cops i would have to live with that THE REST OF MY LIFE!! How could you want that for me??I told you I feel so helpless , there is NOTHING I CAN DO living 9 hours away!! If i could have i would have left work to go find u myself, would that have pissed you off also??? Your post hurt me very badly. You know how much I love and care about you, so how can u possibly think i could just let a SUICIDE call to me go without doing anything?!?!!? You told me your therapist told you to call ME to tell me goodbye-- why didnt she tell you to cal your dh?? what about your kids!?!?! I dont understand?!?! She knows i live very far away, so how could she do that to me, knowing I WAS THE ONE who delt with this same situation LAST TIME!! I dont understand, i am hurt, and I just dont know what to say to you anymore. Also, I told you on the phone why you shouldnt hurt yourself, gave u reasons i could think of in seconds when i know there is many. YOUR KIDS, YOUR DH, ME , my baby daughter who will be 2 next yr who you havent even had a chance to see yet, who will even say HI MO.... SO WHO IS HURT?!?!?!??
OH-- and tell me who treated you like garbage the other day?? The cops who had to restrain you?!?!? THE DOCTORS?!!??!?!?! Well you were fighting them, what did you expect??
Im done. There is nothing I can do more. :(

Hey Marsha,
Hi Lori,
Yeah mo said when she called her T her T said to call me bc i had the right to get a goodbye. I thought that seemed very wrong also, and told that to Mo. First of all, Mo's t was right there. Mo had called her at home, which is very close to her house. So why in the heck did T tell her to call me? I used to have alot of respect for the T, but know i'm just very confused. If anyone needed some sort of a "goodbye" it should have been her dh. Although i do not think T should have told her to call anybody, but she should have called the cops and went to help find her or something. This irritated me last time also, b/c T knew about Mo writing a gbye letter, she actually told her T to go pick it up, that she would leave it outside and it mentioned how she wanted her to give it to dh, to tell him and the kids she loved him, ect. T didnt even call the cops. I did. and mo called me AFTER calling T to tell me the final steps she was taking. The whole situation getting repeated then basically being made to feel even worse for trying to help is draining me emotionally and physically. I don't know what to do anymore. Im sick of feelng like im walking on glass slivers.... just waiting for the next blow to hit. Its always something, My dh, my work, dd being sick, or Mo. Im just so tired...
Marsha
mommy to Rylee Elizabeth 4/12/2005
Hi Marsha,
Marsha,
Anyone can see that you are a really great friend. In fact you and Mary remind me of me and my best friend. You did the right thing, and if the therapist really said that, wow she/he is misguided.
I would like to ask Mary, what type of things would make you feel better? If you could imagine the most helpful thing someone could say, what would it be? What do you need/want to hear?