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| Mon, 02-26-2007 - 8:45am |
well my husband and I had the talk last night about staying together. He says over the last few weeks I have changed(which isnt true, im very consistent) and he wants us to work out. I said that I was tired of him wanting us then not wanting us and that I didnt think I could keep on until the next moment that he is unhappy. He got very mad and said that he wasnt going to try then. I said I deserve to feel confused about his changing moods and he said "whatever" and that is why he wont open up. How did this become my fault again? Im so sick of this. He said do I want us and I said sometimes yes but ssometimes no and that right now it is no. We had an intimate moment and I just cried and cried afterward. I felt so unloved.
Jessica
Jessica

This whole situation sounds like emotional abuse to me. Everyone has bad days and weeks, even months. But taking it out on family all the time is not healthy.
You can't reason with an irrational person.