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| Wed, 02-28-2007 - 12:27pm |
My husband and I decided to work on things. Please dont be mad at me. He is a good daddy to our girls and he says things when he is mad. The girls dont see us fight, only argue every once in a while and then make up, nothing major and it shows that people do argue but we resolve it and move on. This is what I want and he said that he wants to change and be more happy and communicate with me more. He has actually tried, along with periods of being his usual clam self, but I see an effort. I have to say that Im not the easiest person to get along with either so I have to come clean on that, it is not all his fault. I can be quite a pain. Im not blaming myself, he did lie and put me through a lot but in the past 6 months, I quit my job for health reasons, he lost his job, we lost our car and our credit got ruined. This would send anyone through a tough time. Thanks for all of your support and I have my pdoc appt tomorrow and I will talk to her about it and a tdoc appointment next week too. I think things can be salvaged, I am hopeful.
Jessi
Jessi

Hey Jessi,
I wouldn't be mad at you or judge you.
My marraige has been very challenging too. Money problems, fighting, unemployment, jealousy, mean inlaws, etc. It's not the fairy tale we all want as young girls. I wonder if any marraige is?
But so far we have kept trying also. We love each other. And it's not all bad. We have good memories too.
Edited 3/1/2007 3:49 pm ET by bluerains