Journal ~ Getting through the Holidays

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Registered: 01-17-2007
Journal ~ Getting through the Holidays
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Tue, 11-20-2007 - 6:56am

I figure instead of making it a monthly one, I would make it a holiday one.  OK so I am doing better, still battling with DH with certain issues but I am learning to pick my fights carefully.  I really dont look forward to seeing my older sisters this Tday.  They make it so uncomfy for me and still trat me like I am 10.  Typically, I will just roll my eyes and shake my head at them.  Kind of like their sh*t don't stink thing.  For my parents' sake, I ignore them and make my visit on Tday short but I come back on Friday and do a long visit.  I am trying not to let the blues push me around during the holidays.  I wont see Gina this week but we scheduled for next Thursday.  Hopefully there will be no meltdown or attempts. 


But overall, I am doing ok during this 'jolly' time.  I think society pushes too much on you HAVE to be happy during this time.  What about the rest of the year?  Apparently those dont matter.  :) 

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 1:56pm

This is a great topic, Darla! Thx for getting us started. Maybe we can all share our stress busters to help get us through those *happy or not so happy* days ahead;)


Firstly, I think you are doing a great job in battling this latest challenge of blue thoughts. You haven't thrown in the towel by letting them get ahead of you. That is worth a round of applause, gf!


As for facing the toxic holiday gathering, you have a very good attitude & an excellent plan on how to spend your time. There are folks in my life that I can only take in small doses. LOL That is my plan too. Also, I don't set myself up for failure by expecting too much. I limit the demands I place on myself or allow others to sucker me into;) If it's possible to do it in a simpler manner, then I go for it. It used to be I decorated 3 trees in my house & was very proud of myself. No more! Now, it's just one tree & I'm making it nice!


Keep in touch. Have a Happy Thanksgiving! (((hugs))) jan

 

 


 



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Registered: 01-17-2007
Mon, 11-26-2007 - 8:04am

Well I managed to get through another holiday without having stress!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 11:34am
WOW! That is great news, Darla! GL on your class! I'll be rooting for ya:) (((hugs))) jan


 

 


 



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Registered: 01-17-2007
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 12:19pm

Jan ~


I love your signature!

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 1:49pm
Thx:) Anne on Sig Making for Beginners made it for me last year. I have always loved it. jan


 

 


 



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Registered: 01-17-2007
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 2:29pm

I am thankful that Thanksgiving is done!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2004
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 8:40pm

ITA, Darla! I am unimpressed by these overly cheery folks. Too much is too much.


I applaud you for your many accomplishments. That is wonderful that you are giving yourself recognition. To me, that is important as depression tends to erode our self-esteem.


You have kept me going many days, gf.

 

 


 



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Registered: 01-17-2007
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 6:37am

Jan~


You ROCK!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 1:37pm

I'm expecting Lori any day now. I have really missed her & I know she appreciates your remembering her. Let's keep our fingers crossed that she'll suddenly appear on iVillage soon! (((hugs))) jan


 

 


 



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Registered: 01-17-2007
Fri, 12-07-2007 - 6:59am

Had session last night and I am cutting my appointment times to once a month.

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