Journal ~ Getting through the Holidays
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| Tue, 11-20-2007 - 6:56am |
I figure instead of making it a monthly one, I would make it a holiday one. OK so I am doing better, still battling with DH with certain issues but I am learning to pick my fights carefully. I really dont look forward to seeing my older sisters this Tday. They make it so uncomfy for me and still trat me like I am 10. Typically, I will just roll my eyes and shake my head at them. Kind of like their sh*t don't stink thing. For my parents' sake, I ignore them and make my visit on Tday short but I come back on Friday and do a long visit. I am trying not to let the blues push me around during the holidays. I wont see Gina this week but we scheduled for next Thursday. Hopefully there will be no meltdown or attempts.
But overall, I am doing ok during this 'jolly' time. I think society pushes too much on you HAVE to be happy during this time. What about the rest of the year? Apparently those dont matter. :)













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This is a great topic, Darla! Thx for getting us started. Maybe we can all share our stress busters to help get us through those *happy or not so happy* days ahead;)
Firstly, I think you are doing a great job in battling this latest challenge of blue thoughts. You haven't thrown in the towel by letting them get ahead of you. That is worth a round of applause, gf!
As for facing the toxic holiday gathering, you have a very good attitude & an excellent plan on how to spend your time. There are folks in my life that I can only take in small doses. LOL That is my plan too. Also, I don't set myself up for failure by expecting too much. I limit the demands I place on myself or allow others to sucker me into;) If it's possible to do it in a simpler manner, then I go for it. It used to be I decorated 3 trees in my house & was very proud of myself. No more! Now, it's just one tree & I'm making it nice!
Keep in touch. Have a Happy Thanksgiving! (((hugs))) jan
Well I managed to get through another holiday without having stress!
Jan ~
I love your signature!
I am thankful that Thanksgiving is done!
ITA, Darla! I am unimpressed by these overly cheery folks. Too much is too much.
I applaud you for your many accomplishments. That is wonderful that you are giving yourself recognition. To me, that is important as depression tends to erode our self-esteem.
You have kept me going many days, gf.
Jan~
You ROCK!
I'm expecting Lori any day now. I have really missed her & I know she appreciates your remembering her. Let's keep our fingers crossed that she'll suddenly appear on iVillage soon! (((hugs))) jan
Had session last night and I am cutting my appointment times to once a month.
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