Spouse/partner responses to veggie diet
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Spouse/partner responses to veggie diet
| Mon, 10-30-2006 - 7:28am |
Was going to make this the QOTW, but since it doesn't include everyone, just making it a post :D
If you didn't start out a romantic relationship with a person as a vegetarian, who did he/she react when you made the change? What are his/her feelings about your new lifestyle?
I know for my dh, it's been kind of hard. He'd only met "obnoxious" vegetarians, as he thinks of them, who tried to *force* their diet on everyone.
The response that's been oddest to me is that he semi-happily eats vegan along with me when money is really tight, but the first moment we have an extra $10 or so, he'll buy himself a special cut of beef (thankfully he usually cooks these himself) and enjoy. It saddens me that he joins me in eat "only when we're most poor."
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Virginia
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wow, what a change!
I would never try that tact with my dh. I know it would soundly backfire on me. He can't stand PETA or any other animal rights group that "operates like them," to use his phrase
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Hi there! I'm Kate, and have been vegetarian since I was 14 or 15...20 now. My boyfriend eats meat several times a day (we live together) and it doesn't bother me. I don't think I'll ever learn to cook it though. I still eat dairy and eggs that are baked in stuff. If I was vegan he couldn't stand that, but otherwise my picky eatting doesn't interfere with stuff too much. There are a few restuarants I'd rather not go to since I don't like any of the things on the menu that are veggie. (I'm also a really picky eater--I don't like bell peppers or onions, or anything curry, and actually a lot of vegetables I hate too)
We just each buy our own food and make whatever. The cool thing is that if I cook a veggie dinner for both of us, he'll never complain. I can't cook--just pasta usually, lol. I probably spend the same on food that he does because I like specialty stuff, organic if I can afford it. He'll be fine eatting really cheap food except for his meat.
My group of friends thought it was weird that I don't eat meat, and still joke with me all the time about it. (get offered steak, etc) But, I don't think I'll ever switch back because I've never liked the taste.
wow! do I have a story for you!
My first DH(when i was 21) he wanted to eat vegetarian foods but didn;t like anything except pizza, pasta and cheese...LOL!...anyway that lasted about 5 years in the mid to late '80's. There just wasn't a whole lot of choices for vegetarians back then to eat out and get alternative foods at the supermarket so I had to be very creative.
We divorced in 1990....
I went back to eating mostly fish and chicken and occasioan red meat.
DH #2 was a total redneck, meat and potatoes, hunting deer and moose kinda guy. The good thing was that he was willing to try ANYTHING! so that made it easy...I would just make something..ask him to try it and if he liked it which was most of the time he would say yes! make this again.
He easily made the switch to meatless pizza and pasta sauces, big beautiful salads etc...
We divorced in 1997
Musician BF and I were together for 6 years...he was a great cook and had owned a restaurant and did catering and stuff. Although we did eat meat, I learned a lot from him including how to cook a lot of tasty, meatless dishes. He was after all, a musician, so he was indeed poor and had to learn to live in a frugal, healthy way!LOL!
Present day BF is vegetarian and has been for about 6 years. He was vegan for a while but likes cream in his coffee and likes to have the occasional egg. For the most part the both of us do eat as ovo-lacto vegetarians and I try to eat an 75 to 80% raw diet.
We have been together for 3 1/2 years and I really like being veg. I switched over once we moved in together but because I wanted to! He says if I ever want meat he would never be mad or upset and would even cook it to perfection for me.
he is just so sweet and thoughtful.
Nathalie
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Hi Kate :) Thanks for posting. That's good you can tolerate your bf's meat eating. I know some people are just so grossed out by anyone eating meat around them. In my family, my circle of friends, I've usually been the only vegetarian so I've adjusted to that myself.
I totally understand about picky eating. I need food somewhat bland.
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I understand the living on peppers thing! My boyfriend can make a stir-fry that is half onions and peppers--double eeewwww.
I think pepper is too spicy sometimes, but salsa is always good.
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