Trying to find the right present ..

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Trying to find the right present ..
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Mon, 04-28-2003 - 6:51pm
Aloha Ladies!

In 1984 my William married me not knowing I was damaged goods. A few years after we got married I became deathly ill so ill I could not leave the house without his help. I have had so many operations and hospital stays that I have lost count. And my dear sweet William stayed with me through all these years being my doctor, cheerleader, coah, hair dresser, and houskeeper...etc... You name it he did it without a complaint coming from his mouth. He has fought with doctors in my defense, stood up to medical companies to get the medical care I needed, and has held down a job all these years so I never had to worry about money.

Most importantly, girls he has loved me with more love then I ever deserved. When my hair fell out, he would say "oh Honey no one will notice because you are beautiful with or with out hair". In addition, when I was looking like death was knocking at my door he would make me laugh at the predicument I was in. I feel as though he deserves someone who is healthy and someone who could of gave him kids instead of being stuck with some one like me. Never the less when I ask him for a divorce he always tells me that the warranty expired year ago so I am stuck with his little sweet butt. I love him so!

I am sorry but I can't write more because I am crying to much... I have so much more to tell you girls about my wonderful husband who I call "My Pot Of Gold".....

Girls my husband deserves the best present I can find because I feel he got short changed when he married me 19 years ago. Do you guys have any suggestions as to what to get sweet William... for an anniversary present? I have until May 5th... help please!

Aloha oye!

Your Hula Girl

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Mon, 04-28-2003 - 8:35pm
Leilani you William is a very lucky guy. Sorry no ideas as to what to get him. My anniversary is tomorrow I am getting my dh a new bike. He rides with me now every morning.

We have been married 30 years now.

Hugs

Mary

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Mon, 04-28-2003 - 8:38pm
Lei girl, since he has been lovingly at your side for some

19 years, sounds like a winner to me, not someone who has

been shortchanged.

He is a gift from God to you because he had all the chance in

the world to leave, but he chose not to. What a wonderful

man! If he ever felt shortchanged, that would have been

long ago. Give him big hugs from all of us!

As for a gift, hmmmmmm, let us think for awhile lol.

love ya,

Cindy


~*~ Aloha to all .... ~*~

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Mon, 04-28-2003 - 11:02pm
Lei...Your William is a peach all right. He does everything, out of love in his heart, for you, his island prencess. Enjoy being together my friend. I too have a prince of a man. When I went thru my worst years (many)with this chem imbalance I have, doing and saying many things that I just don't know what kept him here, he was right here holding me, keeping me from hurting myself, doing everything for me, every step of the way. It aged Bill and I will always regret that, but I'm so glad he was and still is with me.

Here's a toast to both our Williams!!! BIG HUGS. ..Free

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Mon, 04-28-2003 - 11:07pm
I went over to my friends house to see what she thought I should get William for an anniversary present. Here we are talking away not thinking any one is listening to us. I guess we were kind of loud and laughing our heads off thinking up some bizzare things for William's present. When in walks her son. Just as calm as could be he tells me I am psycho-active so why don't I get William a bottle of Pepto-Bismol because that is what his Dad has to take after I leave... ha ha ha.... Now that is funny.... Let me see today I have been called weird, a drama queen and now psycho-active. ha ha ha.... I think the best label for me is probably psycho-active.... because I do live out loud! ha ha ha... Okay Pepto-Bismol it is ha ha ha.... Oh that would be funny... a good laugh is always a nice present don't ya think girls?

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Tue, 04-29-2003 - 12:19am
Happy Anniversary Mary!

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Tue, 04-29-2003 - 12:23am
Your so sweet Cindy... aaahh... thank you for your kind words. Okay one huge hug coming up for William.

Aloha,

Hula Girl

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Tue, 04-29-2003 - 12:58am
Aloha Free ole Buddy!

Free sweetheart I will drink to that. Here is to our guys! Sounds like you know what I am talking about. We are two lucky girls ha Free! Thank you for sharing with me your life story. I really appreciate that... some times I think no one could possible know how I feel or what I am going through or have gone through then you pop up and share your heart with me... Mahalo big time... now I don't feel like a drama queen... or that my life is so out of the ordinary compaired to everyone elses... Thank you for being you Free...

Now where is the Pepto-Bismol Free and some wrapping paper! ha ha ha...

Aloha!

Hula Girl

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Tue, 04-29-2003 - 11:09am
Lei, you could put on your best smile and get yourself to Glamour Shots or another photo place and have a pic done just for sweet William. Since he loves you so, might be the perfect thing.

I agree with you, he is your pot of gold. Just goes to show what wonderful people are in this world of ours. Congrats on your anniversary Lei. You could make him dh of the year also,have a trophy engraved. These are little things but heartwarming.

Hugs,

Rain

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Tue, 04-29-2003 - 11:39am
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Grams

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Tue, 04-29-2003 - 1:21pm
Oh Rain Spirit I could give ya a hug, kiss and pat on the poo poo for those suggestions. Never thought of getting Glamor Shots done of me... what a riot thats a great idea! Mahalo dear buddy... Now Rain Spirit are you sure I won't break the camera? ha ha ha... And the trophy idea is another great idea. I am going to look into getting pictures done and a trophy today for sweet William. Mahalo Mahalo Mahalo a million times over.... those are great ideas!

Aloha oye!

Hula Girl

Aloha,

Lei

 

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