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| Thu, 05-01-2003 - 10:35pm |
Well wanted to let all of you know that my new job, as a cashier at Krogers is doing just fine, today was my 3rd day on the job. Man and the kids behaved while I was at work, no fighting or arguing! wow, did I come home to the right trailer?? I do have a problem though,, ok here it is, my oldest daughter (Tracey) will be 30 in August, Friend of the court has finally got her dad on back child support, well all summer I was spilting it with her what ever I got, to help her out, and now that I have the trailer and more bills, I cant afford to do this, she is having a fit! Her dad called me the other night, called me every name he could because I didnt give her half, I have been driving on expired plates and no insurance, because I couldn't afford to get them. well I got a check, gave her 100.00 instead of half, which would have been another 80.00. she blew a cork, and he did too. Now mind you I raised her all on my own since she was 3 years old, How dare him call me and talk to me in that way! or her feel I owe this to her?? she came to my place today,, compaining about it, and how unfair it is. Now this is a person that is planing a trip to Florida in June with her husband, and wants me to watch her 4 kids! now how unfair is that! Complains about not having money, and how unfair I am, but wants to go to Flordia to stay in a condo, they bought into time shares, which they cant afford at 200.00 a month! but yet she cant afford to pay her car note, or buy groceries half the time, and hubby has a 600.00 truck payment! who is spending out of there range?..ohhhhh kIds! now am I wrong or what?? Her dad came into the store tonight and comes through my lane, told me to GIVE her half! who is he to tell me what to do! At times I am so sick of being HER mother!,,,sorry I had to vent this some place...HUgs...........Pam

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Mary
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You said she has 4 children. How would it be if she had no help. Ask if she's thought of that. You raise your children doing the best you know how. Finacialy, you owe them nothing. In fact my fave bumper sticker is "I'm spending my childrens inheritance". LOL
A little story to show just how rotten I can be. My ex still has to pay maintenance or was called alimony way back then. He hates it with a passion. So, make sure I spend every single penny on things for other people, then make sure he knows it. Really, really aggravates the H out of him.
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Rain