The Funeral Is Over.................

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Registered: 03-25-2003
The Funeral Is Over.................
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Mon, 06-30-2003 - 12:55pm
Even though his passing is a blessing, it still was difficult to go through all the formalities. It was so nice to have Darby come to the funeral on Sunday. I was able to introduce her to some of the important people in my life so they now know the great friend I found on the internet. Now it's time to get back to normal - whatever normal is. I have off today and tomorrow and I don't know yet about Wednesday. My son & his family just left for home. My other son had to go back to work today, but the girls are home and I might take a ride over there a little later. I had thought I could go over to my step-mom's today or tomorrow and help her with the cards, etc. but I'm having a little problem there. I don't know if she was just tired and upset last night or what, but she seemed like she might be trying to distance herself from us. I don't know what the future will bring. I pray that it turns out ok.

Hopefully I'll be able to catch up on the board now. Or, maybe I'll just have to jump in at the present. Take care........ kaci

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 1:16pm
Kaci, maybe step-mom just needs a few more days

of adjustment. Tho I know the grieving process

takes much longer than that, overall.

Kaci, I will hold you in my thoughts.....

((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))

love,

Cindy


~*~ Aloha to all .... ~*~

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 9:21pm
HI Kaci

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that things will go well with your dsm. Hope you will have more time to spend here with us.

Love ya

Mary

                          &n
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-01-2003 - 2:00pm
Hugs Kaci,

I hope it was just the sadness of the moment. Or maybe she thinks she will lose all of you now. That happens sometimes when the person who made the connection passes away. I will be praying all turns out well.

Hugs,

Rain

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Tue, 07-01-2003 - 3:38pm
Please except my deepest sympathies for the lost of your Dad!

Aloha,

Hula Girl

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 07-01-2003 - 4:27pm
Kaci I am so sorry about your dad passing, I know it has been a hard while for you. I am glad that Darby was able to go to the funeral, wish we could all have been there for you!

Maybe your step mom just needed a little time alone, it has to be pretty overwhelming for her as well! Give her a bit of time!

Hugs to you!

Lor